You are the most helpful person here who actively participates and helps women here. Thanks for your presence in many of the relationship threads. I learn a lot from reading your posts and hope to create magic in my life too. PS: updated: An IL friend just PMd me after I posted above, and informed me that I may not get the privilege of reading more magical posts. I was away for a while with real-life so didnt realize that it had happened in the last some days. Oh noes!! I shall miss the magic (till another new id comes along)!