We just found our we're pregnant and were so excited about it. My parents have come from India to stay with us and will be here for another month. Our due date is next year. The problem however started because I started putting on weight. I'm not sure how to say this, so I'll just be blunt. Since last week, I kept noticing my dad staring at my chest. At first I thought I was imagining it. But he does it even in front of my mom and its not just a glance. I am so completely horrified and embarassed. I talked to hubby and he says its a normal reflex for guys to do that. BUT THIS IS MY FATHER! I am in my first trimester so I'm weepy, nauseous and depressed anyway and this is just adding to the stress. I don't know what to do. I just stay in my room and avoid them as much as I can and only go into the kitchen etc when they are not around. I tried asking for advise on another forum, but asking them to go stay in a hotel is not an option. Plus they cannot change their tickets and they will be here for another month and if I confront him about it, it will be a VERY awkward month. And now the kicker is that after mom found out about the pregnancy, they're looking into tickets to come back at the time of delivery and I really don't want them to and I tried to tell her, but she just won't listen (because they hate staying with my sibling). My mother is the type who will say its all in my head so I can't talk to her. I just want this to stop but I don't know what to do, how to deal with it and I am tired of being stressed out about it. He's my father, how can be behave like this? If I ask him, what do we do for the next few weeks if it gets all awkward. If I tell them more directly not to come next year, I'll be all alone here for my delivery since my inlaws have already told us they are very happy but not to expect them to come and help. Our friends here are very casual acquaintances and nobody helped us when we needed it. What do I do?