headless stubborn Wife

darmesh · Apr 26, 2014

ManyaManya has not logged into IL after 7th June 2011.

What is the point in asking the above question to him in this very old thread, Mr.Nitin ?

yellowmango · Apr 26, 2014

veditha09 said: ↑

Hi Manya,

I had 3 full term pregnancies.

All the 3 times normal delivery.

But I never behaved or did anything that u have mentioned or like others have mentioned here.I haven't seen anyone like this for that matter.

Hormonal changes are just an excuse.

It can be to some extent.but not this much weird.

Being a female If I were in ur place I would have sent her to India immediately.

If your wife prefers going to India than staying with you then let her.

If u will not take a decision right now u will be like this forever in this relation.And everyone will talk like this forever.

If u don't want to send her then send ur parents to India.
Stop talking with ur wife completely.But provide everything she needs now.

And cut all the connections for her to reach her parents.

No phone calls, no chatting,etc.Give some excuse like problem with network or something.

It may sound sadistic but this is not for torturing her but she will start thinking on her own instead of following her parents all the time.

when u believe in someone blindly u will just do whatever they say and whatever they believe in.she believes in her parents and is doing what they r telling her to do.
But will never use ur brain to think what is right or what is wrong.
I think ur wife is going thru the samething.
If she really loves you then she 'll surely change and will try to understand the situation.
otherwise send her to India she will learn there that she belongs to u.
Because once a lady gets married and goes back to her moms place by fighting with her husband no one has respect for her and parents too cannot keep her with them.
How long will they keep her ?
Tell them bluntly that u don't want her..
Don't show any soft corner for anyone.If someone wants to reach u cut the phone connection immediately.
Don't try to entertain anyone. With this everyone will be tuned.
If u still want to be in the same boat just continue what u have been doing till now.
But I am sure that very few people will be there here who really listen to ur problems others will blame YOU.
And those few people will also stop responding to ur queries 'coz from ur side there is neither any action nor any progress

All the best
Veda
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It is shocking to read such a post by a woman . It is true that a woman is another woman's worst enemy.

suasin · Apr 26, 2014

Isn't this an old thread?

suasin · Apr 26, 2014

YM, maybe he is the doctor who delivered those three babies ...

santhusen8 · Apr 27, 2014

i didn't read any posts nor your post completely , but i assume most of the replies would be supporting your wife and arguing against you
Ignorance is a bliss , that would be my suggestion , that will keep you happy and your wife happy