Have we ILs crossed paths ever?

DramaQueen · Nov 16, 2013

I went to the mall today with my MIL for some work. For a while I got some time off at the billing counter queue and I was just observing people. Then I was observing women and it occurred to me that someone or few of them could be part of this anonymous world that we have created for ourselves. I wonder how many women whom we meet professionally, personally , socially or just strangers who cross paths are part of IL secretly and log in everyday from their personal private space to vent out frustrations, discuss recipes and kids, share their problems, seek advices and so many other things. We all appear to be normal and happy in our daily lives when we meet ppl on a daily basis but somewhere, sometime of the day we find few minutes or hours to log in and share what we feel from our cozy corner.Computer Typing

Well I'm myself right now tucked into my bed sitting with the laptop, DH is away on a business trip and in laws snoring away to glory! I'm just amused by the fact that so many women are also online like me at this hour from India or elsewhere.friendssmiley

peeks · Nov 16, 2013

lol..I never thought of it like that, but yes you are right, we must have passed each other by, without even knowing that we might have 'chatted' online.

Radhai · Nov 16, 2013

dont forget the men who PM crap to ilites here.. they may also be part of the crowd we pass by, or who knows some of us can be married to them as well. ideasmiley ok ignore me.. that is my weekend mind working overtime. :biglaugh

Rihana · Nov 16, 2013

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I went to the mall today
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If an IL member is at the same mall, and calls out loudly: DramaQueen/Racr/Satchi/Radhai/FreeSpirit/Peeks..

what will happen? Will you grab the MIL/companion and duck under the checkout counter? or give a big wave? Or turn around with a who-me expression and continue shopping cool as a duck?

Radhai · Nov 16, 2013

Rihana said: ↑

If an IL member is at the same mall, and calls out loudly: DramaQueen/Racr/Satchi/Radhai/FreeSpirit/Peeks..

what will happen? Will you grab the MIL/companion and duck under the checkout counter? or give a big wave? Or turn around with a who-me expression and continue shopping cool as a duck?
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sigh.. a big wave it is. :hide:else Mil/companion will wonder why the gal is avoiding someone who knows her so well!

heron · Nov 16, 2013

All the time!....for now if I see anyone talking open mind...I would wonder "Is she that 'Dramaqueen'?" thinkingsmiley

heron · Nov 16, 2013

Radhai said: ↑

or who knows some of us can be married to them as well.
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:shaking: you wont let me sleep will you?....

Radhai · Nov 16, 2013

heron said: ↑

:shaking: you wont let me sleep will you?....
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laugh1smileyok peace.. I have a 'litmus' test.
Did u receive recently a "miss you darling" types msg along the lines of this thread: http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/236753-do-husbands-miss-wife-3.html#post3034321 ? If not, you are good. (your H is not in this forum.. either that or :crazy he is clever enuf to refrain from msging - either way you got a good deal na.. good and/or clever husband. :kiss)

Radhai · Nov 16, 2013

OP, with ur permission to digress: R and heron, bring on your funny side and start some easy light threads. I am craving.

heron · Nov 16, 2013

Radhai said: ↑

laugh1smileyok peace.. I have a 'litmus' test.
Did u receive recently a "miss you darling" types msg along the lines of this thread: http://www.indusladies.com/forums/married-life/236753-do-husbands-miss-wife-3.html#post3034321 ? If not, you are good. (your H is not in this forum.. either that or :crazy he is clever enuf to refrain from msging - either way you got a good deal na.. good and/or clever husband. :kiss)
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Test negative...kneesmiley