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  1. indubalram

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    My daughter and son-in-law are planning to come home for thanksgiving. My husband had bought a suit and shirt and shoe for himself with buy one and another free offer. Husband is saying will give the other set that came free to the son in law. I find it very weird. Why would someone give a set that came free to son in law. He is very adamant and gets angry if say no. What is your opinion. Is he correct?
     
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    Maybe he is seeing him as his successor?
     
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    But what is wrong if he gives that free suit to the Son in law...it was bought with hard earned money..let it go, just tell him not to mention this to the Son in law that’s all.
     
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    Will this look that we are overdoing things buy giving him all that?
     
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    Anyways it’s a custom to get gifts for daughters and son in law when they visit home on a holiday or vacation. it’s not a big deal if your husband gifts him a suit.
    You mentioned in other posts about shirt tempered nature of your husband, such trivial things you can let go. Is the suit of good quality and would your son in law use it,,if yes then no issues.
     
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    Do I get my daughter as well? Bc I did not plan. But since he is doing for him I want to do for her.?
     
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    Do the other set fit your son in law.
    If it's his size. I think it's fine.
     
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    We are just guessing that it will fit.
     
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    So do I get my daughter one too? I’m just thinking Bc it should not look we are spending lavishly
     
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    go ahead. ask her what she would like.
     
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