Has ur Dh influenced your choice of friends???

the answer is - Never!

but,since i have moved to US after marriage i am not having a lot of touch with frens....i mean my good frens...but,i do keep in touch with them thru email/chat.
DH knows this and he is in fact happy that i am in touch with my goood frens...

and as far as being in US, i have met his friend's wives etc but he has never forced me to be in touch with their wives just because my DH is good frens with their husbands....

-Neha S

 

my DH is a sweetheart :kissand he NEVER influences my decision on choice of my friends...... i am an extrovert and sometimes mingle up with strangers too with tremendous ease as if we had known each other for ages...... it is then he gets a bit concerned for he thinks i shouldnt rely on strangers too easily and should not divulge any personal things to them.:hide:.... as i might get hurt sometimes.....yet he leaves the final decision to me!!!!

though i do not have many close friends.... except my school friends.... he is only too happy if i maintain contacts with them.....which i do as much as i can!!!!

 

Ours was a love marriage and my DH was my close friend ..he knows all the friends i had previosly nd now but never happy with relation..i used to talk to frds almost daily but since marriage i never keep up the same..he is hurt and makes me hurt mentally if i talk to male frds from school or college or office .i personaly feel he is insecure or over possesive at times

 

Yes, though he never openly commented anything on my relationships with my friends, his actions, possesiveness on me and so many other things have influenced on my choice and relationship with my friends.

My DH has been my best friend since our first meeting, and his affection, caring, sharing and friendship has influenced a lot on my requirement to look for other friends around.

I had a couple of very good friends from my School and College, but all those closeness and friendships are gone after some times except occational e mails and face book updates. I have some good friends all over the world, since I travel a lot, but no friendship can be compared with the closeness and friendship I have with my DH now.

I think, the friendship I have with my DH may influence my choice/wants/needs to have friends:hide:

 

Has ur Dh influenced ur choice of friends?

Oh yeah.. Every friend I have made ' after marriage ' , was BECAUSE of my hubbypie.. He doesnt have many friends.. And I am crazy over socialising.. So, because he doesnt make too many friends.. I MAKE !! Now, is that an influence, Shaks ??

Do you continue the same warm relationships with ur old friends(before marriage friends) ?

Yes. All my school and pre-university friends are common.. Though I keep in touch with them more often.. ( as usual ) HE KNOWS THEM ALL ! He better not forget those who studied with him right !!

Is he warm and friendly when your friends call on you?

Yeah.. Yeah.. Else we will be left with no social life !! :biggrin2:

Funny part is, I maintain his Engg friendships too.. Both virtually and personally ( a few of them ).. I remind him of them once in a while.. and also, sometimes remind him to wish them for their birthdays ( now, this respite the google calender pop-up !! :bonk ) Cute isnt ?

He has 3 friends from his childhood, ONLY they are the previliged to get his phone calls regularly !! He has very limited friend circle as compared to the soooo-opposite me !! :biggrin2:

 

Hi,

My hubby is pretty cool about my maintaining friendship with old buddys . Perhaps b'coz our is a love marriage from college.However, my other Gal friends from school our hesitant when it comes to maintaining friendship. Your thread has given me the answer to their hestation.

Regards,
Amarpreet

 

Hi
since ours is a love marriage my DH knows most of my friends expect a few who may be migrated before we met. He is extremely popular with all my friends. But he is not so good at keeping up with his friends so I most of the time try and maintain the relationship with both our friends. :thumbsup
Both of us being professionals and working at stressful jobs we prefer to spend all the time with our son over the weekend and so social life does take a back step:hide:
Has he influenced my choice of friends?????... well over the years we have influenced each other's choice in all aspects... maybe sub consciously "choice of friends" also!!