Ladies, i recently watched the " the great indian kitchen ". This was a very powerful movie that many scenes were so close to my life even if it was a different scenario. There was a scene in the movie where the wife tells the husband that sex is painful for her and she would like some foreplay. This request is then met with indifference and gaslighting. Here is my question to all of you : I have encountered this kind of horrible reactions from men , maybe because of their underlying ego and inferiority complex. How would you handle that situation without getting hurt?