They are not your best friends, not your brothers... Their families are not your priority. They are a bunch predators trying to prey innocent & naive women like you. They are waiting because they know clearly that you aren't sure of what they are trying. Not just you, many women aren't sure of what's happening to them. Blame their insecurity, lack of exposure, family background... You name it. These women believe men and their words.... Be it their compliments or their sob stories.. You are not suppose to crack light jokes with men who sexually harass you. Don't call them friends or brothers, but treat them as harassers. The moment women realize all these, they will get freedom from such men.