Happiest Moment Of My Life Right Now

Indeed. Sometime During puberty the voice cracks for both boy and girl. For some it is totally diffetent discernible even from distance. Effeminate voice of boys switch to stentorian and for girls it can change from meliflous to louder and noisy.
Sometimes for couple too it happens. Her vpice sweet music like in the first year of wedlock. Afterfew years hubby has no voice while hers switch to higher pitch. Hush hush voice with passage of time becomes bold and more beautiful and disastrous!

 

My black & white of almost as old as I am looks wonderful to my boy and daughter and spouse too even today. Here is that photo in
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Do I look appealing to the readers and followers here?

 

@gamma50g,

Rihana is right. Document the room settings and your time with your son now when you can. It is true the boys when they have a strong impression about their time with mom, it gets etched in their memories and they try to express and reciprocate when they grow up because their life as children is so simple surrounded by people they know well. It is time to relish the bond between mother and son. The trouble starts for them only when they meet their better half and her opinion that he is a momma's boy. To a certain extent, the mom has to explain the importance of the relationship with the spouse as the boys grow up. Besides the emotional detachment (I am not referring to love for the adult child) with the boys should happen through natural progression by letting him feel that he is an adult (after he grows up) and should be capable of taking decisions of his own. Particularly, it is important to teach him that he should be able to discuss the issues with his spouse to resolve rather than involving the parents or anyone else for that purpose. Mothers should encourage the son to discuss issues only in his wife's presence, if necessary. Mothers have to understand the difference between possessiveness (arising mostly because of living in the past memories instead of understanding the present moment) for their adult son vs love for the adult son.

I am not referring to any one family or any one in particular. I feel, being an extremely spiritually evolved individual, you would know the best how to handle it. I am saying this for the benefit of all the members here including both men and women. I am 72 years old but half of my relatives think I am momma's boy while the other half thinks I am henpecked husband acting only on command of my wife (the term they use casually).

I personally feel I am neither.

 

@gamma50g,

I have no doubt you would lead an examplary life ahead and if at all anyone who knows how to deal with an adult son, it is you.

I enjoy reading the following lines of your response that articulates so well what each mother must do:

Your prayers not to be a dependent during sunset days is fair and unreasonable and I am positive Swami will grant you that.

I also liked your following line: