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Handling my in-laws

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by sadhana, Apr 7, 2007.

  1. eandian

    eandian IL Hall of Fame

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    Re: Inlaws

    Thanks Ladies.
    I have sent him a link to this thread and asked him to read it.
    Hopefully he will understand.
     
  2. aniShekar

    aniShekar Platinum IL'ite

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    Very, very true. The husband should have enough gumption to stand up for his wife....just "understanding" is simply not enough.

    The others have given excellent advice - just dropped in to say how much I admire your stance - it's a bit late, it is true, but IMO, you are doing the right thing for your own dignity, and for your child's.....
     
  3. justanothergirl

    justanothergirl IL Hall of Fame

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    No ur MIL hasnt won. Well she just started losing .
    Look dear I know its hard to accept but its been ur husband who was responsible for all this mess . You are doing the right thing in putting your foot down.
     
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    bhuvnidhi IL Hall of Fame

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    Re: Inlaws

    If your hubby reads these posts, I just wish he understands how lucky he should be to have such a matured and sensible person as a wife.
     
  5. vatsadave

    vatsadave New IL'ite

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    Re: Inlaws

    Anyway, the path from here on needs to be clear in your mind. You strike me as a mature, well balanced person, who hasnt taken this decision lightly. Just make sure that if you do decide to separate, that you have some sort of backup. Emotional, financial, legal and social. This wont be the first time a so-called "nice" guy turns nasty if he gets inkling that you are about to ask for a share of his precious money.

    All the best of luck dear, hope this mess gets sorted out soon
     
  6. aruna23pearl

    aruna23pearl New IL'ite

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    I am not experienced to reply you. But still Treat this reply as your younger sister's advice

    Just forget the things what had happened. Your husband's ego may also be the thing in asking a sorry to you.

    There is a difference between anger and hatred. Anger is just a temporary thing it can go n come. But if you Keep it for long your anger will become Hatred.

    Why am saying you this because you never blamed\accused your husband for what had happened in your life. This shows you have lot of love on your husband. And you don't want to lose your husband's love.

    A Marriage can die only after your love and your husband's love die. If one die also it can live on other's.

    I'll pray to god to have a good future with your child and Husband. In future Your child will see you both as a gift from god.:thumbsup:thumbsup
     
  7. namrathamorab

    namrathamorab Gold IL'ite

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    I am really feeling bad for whatever is happening my heart bleeds for you.I have nothing to suggest or tell you but will definitely pray to god for your and your family's wellbeing. Keep your faith intact God will defn hep.
     
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    srajitha Silver IL'ite

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    Now-a-days its very hard to find people like you.
     
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    I hope your husband comes to his senses.
     
  10. canreachus

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    If he reads it and realizes, he is matured enough, loves you then he will come back to you in spite of influence of your mil

    god bless you dear!!
     
    Last edited: Feb 22, 2011

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