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  1. Feb 20, 2011 #21
    billybob

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    Re: Inlaws

    Agree 100% with flower lady
     
    billybob, Feb 20, 2011
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  2. Feb 20, 2011 #22
    bhuvnidhi

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    Re: Inlaws

    I feel really sorry for your situation.But have you really decided to give up?Or are those words out of frustration?
     
    bhuvnidhi, Feb 20, 2011
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  3. Feb 20, 2011 #23
    Coffeelover

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    Re: Inlaws

    I feel sorry for you. But think of your child. If you walk out, who is going to keep the child.

    Let DH pay for it. You deserve good life. Then do whatever you fel like.

    Good Luck!!!!
     
    Coffeelover, Feb 20, 2011
    Coffeelover, Feb 20, 2011
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  4. Feb 20, 2011 #24
    eandian

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    Re: Inlaws

    We are living in India
     
    eandian, Feb 20, 2011
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  5. Feb 20, 2011 #25
    asuitablegirl

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    Very sad to see this.
     
    asuitablegirl, Feb 20, 2011
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  6. Feb 21, 2011 #26
    billybob

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    Re: Inlaws

    You may have to consult attorney as what are your options for child support and alimony, even if you end up patching up with your spouse.
     
    billybob, Feb 21, 2011
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  7. Feb 21, 2011 #27
    eandian

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    Re: Inlaws

    He has always been good to me. Or at least that is what I have convinced myself to believe.
     
    eandian, Feb 21, 2011
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  8. Feb 21, 2011 #28
    eandian

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    She has never done anything for my daughter. This is one reason I decided to stand up for myself because now my daughter has started to talk and understand things.
     
    eandian, Feb 21, 2011
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  9. Feb 21, 2011 #29
    eandian

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    My point was even after someone tells you that they are very badly hurt by your words, how can you be so insensitive? After all you words did hurt me.
     
    eandian, Feb 21, 2011
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  10. Feb 21, 2011 #30
    asuitablegirl

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    Explain to him that you are tired of being the brunt of all accusations. Just tell him that being ridiculed day in and day out is too much.
     
    asuitablegirl, Feb 21, 2011
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