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Guys dont reply to ladies personal thread

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Happy016, Jan 14, 2014.

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  1. Happy016

    Happy016 New IL'ite

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    I request you guys pls dont reply to question which ladies ask about their life specially related to TTC , EMA and trying to make friends with them by sending Private message.

    Hi Ladies,

    I receive a PM frm one guy who always reply to "Married life" category ....... thts very irritating
     
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  2. g3sudha

    g3sudha IL Hall of Fame

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    Inform admin. They will take care.
     
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  3. my2angels

    my2angels Silver IL'ite

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    Yes please inform admin. You can also forward the PM to the admin as proof.
     
    Last edited: Jan 14, 2014
  4. sokanasanah

    sokanasanah Finest Post Winner

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    Before you take offense, you may want to consider the content of the PM.

    If it is intrusive, rude or disrespectful then you can let the moderators know.

    If it is well intentioned, but unwelcome, then you can let the sender know that while you appreciate the effort, you prefer not to hear from him again & then block his messages.

    In a public internet forum, where anonymity is ensured & identity well protected, it is best to act like an educated adult and take responsibility for one's participation.
    Not all men are predatory, not every PM is an assault on personal space.

    PS: I am a guy - you have been warned! :)
     
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  5. Happy016

    Happy016 New IL'ite

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    Hi Sokanasanah,

    I'm not talking about every one , only abt educated and indecent guy who wants to flirt .
     
  6. sokanasanah

    sokanasanah Finest Post Winner

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    Sure, I understand!
    Unwelcome attention is irritating. Go ahead & block his messages if you wish.
    However, I hope you mean that the content of the PM was 'indecent' & not the mere act of sending one.
     
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  7. tashidelek2002

    tashidelek2002 IL Hall of Fame

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    Soka:
    There was one guy who went overboard on threads and then was doing inappropriate PMs to ladies and he was thrown off IL. Seemingly he is back although maybe it is not him and some new idiot. I have worked in a lot of organizations that were men dominated and men are always telling women don't take it wrong, don't be sensitive, don't blah blah blah and they don't know what their creepy brethren are doing. They just defend. So don't be pressing my hot button which is also the hot button for a lot of other ladies.
     
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    Endlesshope Platinum IL'ite

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    Indecent or not, if a girl wants you to stay away you stay really far away.
     
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    sokanasanah Finest Post Winner

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    Errr ... you know (well, no you don't!), I have actually been at the receiving end of unwanted attention from a stalker 'lady' - and I mean stalker. In real life, not e-life. I do sympathize & I do know whereof I speak.
     
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    Quebec Platinum IL'ite

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    Soka...... Tan ta naaaaaaa..... Defender of dasterdly deranged evil men who are on IL stalking women................ He he he........

    Example of Dasterdly deranged evil men: Quebec............

    Awww......... Thanks Soka for defending me.................. He he he....

    Oopsie....... What does this Hot Button do.............

    @OP: report PM by forwarding to any mod here...... Are all very helpful...... DO NOT DELETE....... Forward it........ Whoever is wrong will be told so............ So just forward.........
    If a post is awkward or offensive click on the small triangle down left with a exclamation in it and then enter your objection to it..... Poster will be told to desist and post removed if genuine complaint....... So just report....... Thank you.....

    Example: if you think this post of mine is totally out of line and offensive then click that small traingle and enter your objection..
     
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