Guy Not Ready To Take The Call. I Am Afraid Need Advice.

I think what you're saying is quite justified...i would say, first have voice calls...and then when both are comfortable you two can interact by video calls, like whatsapp and Skype...I see a lack of interest here ..some people feel more comfortable with chatting, some dont like pinging that much unless it's for reminders and prefer calling...

 

He is not interested in you. So, let it go and don't push it.

 

@nolife - On my profile, I have clearly mentioned that my preferred mode of communication is call or meeting in person and if anyone is only interested in chatting, then the communication won't move further. After this, the number of interests I am getting is drastically reduced, but for good since I only get interests from people who are ready to talk. Sometimes I do come across guys who don't read complete profile and still keep texting, but I remind them on text to talk over the phone and if they still don't call, I don't communicate after that.

Obviously every thing has it's own pros and cons. Sometimes it gives an impression that I want to start meeting the guy soon and that am ready to get married in a month or two. I had to tell guys that I want to talk and meet for 3-4 months to know each other better before taking the decision.

From my personal experience, if I guy is not ready to communicate, that does indicate they are not interested and I would let it go. They can come back later when they are interested in communicating properly.

 

If someone wishes to communicate via chat, you need to give it a chance even if it is not your preferred method of communication. Chats are less intrusive and it gives people especially introverted people a safe environment and also some time to think and respond. Chats need not be non-productive. But even idle chit chat can be very revealing of true personalities. A week or 2 of chatting and later move on to calls once he is comfortable. I think you might be denying yourself the opportunity to meet a few good men by being strict about phone calls only.

 

HR call ? Like ..."how do you see yourself in 5 years ?"...
That is sad. It does show a lack of social grace. You need to see him on whatsapp video also.
Good luck.

 

It could be a strategy to keep you Wanting & waiting. In the meanwhile he could have masqueraded in the vicinity if is not afar. Even som engage services of detective(s).
2. Even I shall not be surprised or bewildered if he too contemplating similar move from the other End!
3. Life is like that!

God bless you the soonest.
Regards with seasons greetings.