Groom Need Dowry Or Wife???

Thyagarajan · Oct 11, 2017

Smileyshravs said: ↑

Thank You Nonya Madam for your feedback
and I don't have that much courage to give a police complaint to stop that marriage..
Even our friends have that courage.. We are not supposed to do that.. Because.. If we made a complaint to save my friend.. She may/may not be happy.. Because.. from the date of fixing the marriage, the bride and groom started talking and they are understanding each other..
firstly she may like us for complaining against them or she may tell the police that.. I am happy with that marriage and can tell that, no dowry issues.. so first.. we need to talk to the bride rather than going to police station.. as i already told u.. one of my friend already had a talk with their parents about this..

u r telling that.. we made a girl to be slave.. Why can't you think that, the girl may change their mind after going to in-laws house.
why can't you think that, she may be happy with her husband
why can't you think, her in-laws were asked dowry for privilage, but not for being a slave.

Life will not be same as we think.. Everyone has different story. one may have happy end and one may have sad end.

and one more thing.. i am here to share the real situation that was happened in my life but not to be blamed
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In this context, I tend to agree with yellowmango at #66. Let us commiserate for your pal Ravali. Many a times in life, one had observed harsh conditions yet later with bitter experiences gained, he or she commences leading wonderful, blissful married life. Regards.

Adu07 · Oct 11, 2017

yellowmango said: ↑

If they or their parents don't give a damn about their life and happiness,why should others.
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We girls have to stand for our own happiness and wellness. No messiah is going to come and save us from our miseries. I wonder when these kind people will understand that reputation, social status and goodwill are just mere words compared to their own daughters, how they can compromise and make deals with that???? Why these parents are so desperate to get rid of their daughters??? May be it's relatively better to kill those daughters in their wombs!!!!!
#shame_on_sanity
#shame_on_parenthood

Sunshine04 · Oct 11, 2017

Nonya said: ↑

Now that I understand that this is a real event, people like Smileyshravs who did nothing to stop the event, have let one more woman in India become a slave, or worse.
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You can't blame Op for this. The bride and her parents are responsible.

Sunshine04 · Oct 11, 2017

Smileyshravs said: ↑

u r telling that.. we made a girl to be slave.. Why can't you think that, the girl may change their mind after going to in-laws house.
why can't you think that, she may be happy with her husband
why can't you think, her in-laws were asked dowry for privilage, but not for being a slave.
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i highly doubt this