Hello Ladies, I have been married for four years and always get headaches with MIL. I joined my husband who was working in USA after 5 months of my marriage and recently his project work is finished and now we are back to our home country.Before marriage I worked in an IT company and left it after marriage.Since ours is an arranged marriage we gave dowry,gold,liquid cash and what not everything which my MIL can't even expect.But she is such a greedy and money minded lady always torturing me.I have an old model Necklace which my parents gave it in my marriage and my MIL always forces me to exchange that old model necklace with a new one.(FYI:She did not buy even 1 gram of gold for me with her money till now.She used all the money that DH had sent for Marriage,clothes,gifts etc.) We are now staying with our parents from the last 5 months since we should not go to our home this year.She always calls my mother(my mother a very silent and sensitive lady) and complains her about my behavior of not calling her and asking about her and my FIL's health.(they are quite good enough living a healthy life). I don't call her and I don't want to talk to her because she is such a crap that she always tortures me with her comments like "why are you not working I mean job?"All DIL's are earning and helping their MIL's and doing lots of service.She says that I am not mingling with her and she doesnt like that it seems.After my marriage I stayed in INDIA for 5 months due to delay in VISA and for that my MIL said looks like you are not lucky enough to go to USA.Once a snake came into their house and she said it came because of your leg.She always praised herself and FIL that they are only the great hard workers in this whole world.MY DH only took all responsibilites sending money to them and he gave money to his brother to get a JOB.(BIL is such a nasty fellow he always grabs money from us.We bought a Laptop for him worth 2000$ and a phone 400$ and still he wants a camera from us.I just stopped my DH saying its enough till now).MIL and FIL also tried to send BIL to USA so that he will earn a lot and they can get dowry.She also thought of coming to USA and living happily there but it did not happen(May be she is not lucky enough). Every weekend they do video chat with DH for at least 4 hours. The money which we earned in USA we sent to FIL's Account and they bought a flat in the name of their younger son without telling us that they took our money.Now FIL bought a land which is not worth and had a huge loss and he told us to take that since he cannot bear all the loss.MIL took my gold and silver and kept in locker.We have some Farms and we get money each year from those farms.MIL took that money and gave to her sister without me and DH telling about it.After we are back to home country and when DH asked about it she told like that but I don't know how far it is true.DH also has some farms and MIL saying that they will not give that money until their younger son gets married and ITz a rule.My grandmother and MIL live in the same village.Whenever I go to MIL home she will not at all allow me to go to my granny' house and says that everyone in village will laugh if I go to my grannys house.Like this lot of incidents happened and all my elders are saying me to just keep quiet.Due to this I am spoiling my mind and no peace at all just feel like dying some times :-( Please tell me how to handle this creature..