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Good qualities in your better-half!

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Sriniketan, Feb 11, 2011.

  1. Sriniketan

    Sriniketan IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear friends,

    Not only during the Valentine day we see the good qualities which our dh/dw possess:wink: we are observing them over the years/months/days/hours/minutes/seconds, whatever it is!

    Let us also see those good qualities you see in your dh/dw which makes you feel...why can't I follow that too! :cheers

    My share is:
    1. Never say 'never' attitude: nothing is impossible, if we only try :thumbsup

    I am yet to follow this, because if I try anything new and if it is not upto my expectation, I just leave it without any further try.

    I will come with more..meanwhile let us see your better-half's. :coffee

    sriniketan
     
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  2. hemalathaK

    hemalathaK Platinum IL'ite

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    My Dh is very responsible .He never forgets or even ask excuses to do the things he is responsible for.If I say some negative things about his financial management, he never gets angry in fact tries to do better further.

    If we had any fights and if I don't cook he will never eat out side leaving us even if it is for a whole day.He never expects anything from my family(I mean dress, money, nothing)Not only from my family, even he don't expect anything from his family too even though he do everything to his family.
     
  3. SallyR

    SallyR Silver IL'ite

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    My dh has many good qualities, thing that I admire most is his positive nature. He is a 'glass is half full' kind of guy...he is an optimist! He also shrugs it off when things don't work out. I wish I can be like him.

    I always think about the 'worst case scenario' even before starting something.

    I think we balance each other out. He can get quite carried away sometimes and I bring some reality into the situation. He on the other hand motivates me and brings hope, when I think all is doom and gloom!

    Regards,
     
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    swarnalata.N.S. Platinum IL'ite

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    My husband is very honest and frank person. Will never hide or lie about anything even if it will be hurting for me. I like that.

    Also he will never keep grudges. I want to be like that.
     
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    shakambari Platinum IL'ite

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    From Day 1 till now my DH is dependable-

    let any crisis come -he is there to solve it for me.
     
  6. SreeSri

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    Wow!! I liked this valintine day thread.. your heart is speaking about THAT heart.. what would be a better gift than these words for your dear one.
    I made a list of these good qualities in this thread for me :)
    Keep going gurls.. list out your heart beat here...

    My share:
    1) She never lied with me so far.
    2) She helped me for my dreams to work (in taking care of my mom etc)
    3) She never cares about the money and stuff
    4) She never spends money on her own, I have to push on and on to buy something for her.
    5) She is innocent..
    6) She wants to do something in her life... works on that
     
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    SreeSri Gold IL'ite

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    I liked the feel of responsibility in asking an excuse..
    Dont starve him at all.. he is such a nice man!!:thumbsup
     
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    Sure SreeSri, all the days I cook him son many varieties in fact I have learned n number of items, snacks for my Dh and children.These starvings are once in a year or six months only if I am annoyed very much .
     
  9. Happysoul1234

    Happysoul1234 Gold IL'ite

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    What a lovely positive thread!

    1. He accepts me for who I am, good and bad.
    2. Does not let his emotions affect his decisions. Level headed and makes decisions that are good for the long run.
    3. Extremely respectful to my mom and extended family. Behaves like a son rather than son-in-law.
    4. Never breaks a promise that he makes, never makes a promise he cannot keep.
    5. Never lets my MIL mistreat me in any way.
     
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    Congrats!!! such a nice set of qualities that you owne(by owning him)..

    Top ranked is #4 and than #1, and #3 follows
     
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