What a comparison. You and @knbg remember everything I write. You know that I wont take to heart thats whyyou are asking and I am glad I am also able to write about my experiences.
Yes dear I am born this way and experience also made me to be peaceful. Younger days I was scared to talk to but later became bold. With years I learnt about life . Might be because we were not so well off in my younger days but I always had friends who were well off and glad that they were good friends