Hello, Can someone chime in and provide their opinions/thoughts please.Unable to take a decision. I lost my husband in US and I stay alone in Delaware. Though I have many friends in Delaware, I cannot go to anyone's house when I am not well because I cannot give them trouble and you cannot walk to anyone's house. My friends are helpful but I should not cross a line and respect the relation and their privacy. My sister stays in New Jersey with her family (Sister, husband and kids). I have an option to move to New Jersey. I do not want to stay with them but may be take an apartment two or 3 blocks away from where they stay so that I have someone who I can reach out to when really in need. BY staying in the same house, there may be some situations that arise which will hamper the relation, so I want to stay somewhere close to their house but not really near. Please let me know what are the upsides and downsides you foresee if I am move to where my sister stays?