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Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by Revathi90, Sep 7, 2015.

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  1. Sep 8, 2015 #11
    tashidelek2002

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    Troll.........
     
    tashidelek2002, Sep 8, 2015
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    Revathi90

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    Dear Sing,
    Mine also too tight.If he penetrates,def it will become pain for me and how will i enjoy with pain.How can i ask him to do it again.To avoid this,i may bend his one by not controlling the pain so that he cannot penetrate.I like to avoid this situation.Def it will result in big fight. So i am scared.Please suggest/ideas.
     
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    Revathi90

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    What ........
     
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    Trolls dont amaze me anymore, how IL-ites miss spotting them even when they are painted clear, now that does.

    Thanks for raising the alert Tina.
     
    Ragini25, Sep 8, 2015
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    Rihana

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    You should invite a gynecologist in disguise to the wedding, and hide her under the bed for the day night function. Make sure she has a mobile phone to text you.
     
    Rihana, Sep 8, 2015
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    Akanksha1982

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    Rihana, what if her gynec is he and not she? Should op follow the same?
     
    Akanksha1982, Sep 8, 2015
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    msindu

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    all women went through this, so why do you think you cannot? just take it slow if it is a problem for either of you.
    if this is a problem what about child birth?
     
    msindu, Sep 8, 2015
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    Dear OP,
    I can understand your worries. Firstly very few of guys are like your friend's husband. In general, guys understand state of wife (if stated in clear way)...

    What you are thinking... not all that is going to happen on FN... these things come slowly slowly... Asking your husband "not to touch" could lead to an argument... but yes not to have intercourse if you are not comfortable can be understood...

    For me, I was also worried and scared but since we have a long courtship so we got enough time to understand each other and have developed natural feelings for each other... so if you both can spend some time together or even on phone if you talk with each other.. know each other... once you guys build a bond.. then even you are going to enjoy FN... then those pains are also enjoyable...
     
    mcutiepie, Sep 8, 2015
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    Reading the replies is making me :rotfl
     
    iamsrihere, Sep 8, 2015
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    Rihana

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    Usually I am all for being Equal Opportunity Employer, no discrimination based on gender. But, a woman who has a male gynecologist would not be so clueless as to post such a thread.

    For that matter, a woman who has any gynecologist would not be posting such thread!
     
    Rihana, Sep 8, 2015
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