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Going Back To India And Living In Joint Family

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by mohini16, Jul 7, 2022.

  1. chanchitra

    chanchitra Platinum IL'ite

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    My sil lives like this. Bur she takes care of her kids and recently started working too.
     
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    anika987 IL Hall of Fame

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    God bless your family ..lovely to read
     
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    mangaii Finest Post Winner

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    Being financially dependent after building your life is a challenge. You are considering so many things moving in with joint family , financially dependent and moving across continents. Add one change at a time and see how things work .
     
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    mohini16 Silver IL'ite

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    @mangaii Thanks :)
    No I'm not and I will not be financially dependent on anyone,
    I was talking about this guy's parents whom are financially dependent on him, if I get married to him then they will be dependent and will be living with us
     
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    mohini16 Silver IL'ite

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    Yes this is my ideal life :)
    I am not doing any household chores just focusing on my business and kids
     
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    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    Do you have the option of staying with his family as a guest for sometime?

    It is not the same but you will get some idea about how they function and how they plan to accept you and your child into the family.

    Discuss your plan of starting a business and job with them and see how they react to it.

    If he is well off...he will have an extra room for guest. ' Keep it respectful' if you plan to live with his family in India in future.
     
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