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Gift For Mother (soul Of Evil Mil) On Birthday

Discussion in 'Parents & Siblings' started by ChennaiExpress, Aug 18, 2018.

  1. ChennaiExpress

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    Can you suggest me small gift for Mother on her Birthday.

    In past I gave paintings, but I don't think she appreciates them (i.e. she hides them behind other paintings of religious saints)

    My mother is worse than any MIL, but circumstances are making me live with her, so I'm trying to be tactful.

    Any suggestions for a small gift.
     
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    You must have already known your moms taste. If in case she is fond of jewellery you can present her silver anklets or if she likes sarees you could buy latest trending ones too depending on your budget..if she is fond of gold you can buy her a gold coin or a short chain or gold studs if you have a higher budget for the gift.
     
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    Well ...... I'm really not sure what she's fond of.

    One of my social issues is, I'm unsure what people like.

    Off tangent: Now when I meet new people, I smile and I train myself to allow them to speak (but that's a separate thread)

    I think she likes butterscotch :eek:
     
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    Looking for gift chocolate under $10
     
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    I have gone through many of your past Threads . I have understood your deep sense of anguish and frustration with your mother .

    your hatred towards your mother is very deep seated .

    given this much of hatred , you should keep away from that person emotionally.

    why should you primarily try to gift her my faking your emotions?
     
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    What if she creates drama that I didn't give her gift? In past she would complain to her coven sisters something or another.

    For a while I gave paintings, and now (1) I have limited time to paint (2) she doesn't appreciate.

    Maybe you are right. I won't give anything. She won't appreciate anyway ......
     
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    I do know about your moms bil behaviour. I appreciate your thoughts
     
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    Well, I think @BiriyaniAroma is right. Better to not give anything. Besides if she knows I'm painting, she will think I have all this extra time. I have enough time to decompress (so that I don't damage my health).
     

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