I saw an interview where the person who was ghosted was talking about how the person who ghosted them has issues and inability and how they are in the wrong. honestly I think it’s always easy to blame the person who ghosted so that the person who got ghosted can convince themselves they were saints. Yes I have ghosted. Couple of them.I have given them n number of chances.was their in the relationship for more than few years.Tried expressing and softly talking also nothing changed.The rude and arrogant nature of the other person was overwhelming. It’s very easy to give advice to the person who cannot handle that nature of the other person on how to manage. But what do they are literally not letting you go? What if they don’t understand adult talk and calm communication? Infact I had someone do emotional blackmail on me and even threatened to tell a secret out. I was overwhelmed and got into insomnia and so many issues and am sure there are some like me. so I had to ghost and zero regrets. I am not saying ghosting is right and now am mentally more stronger to handle it better but if a person gets ghosted maybe they were in the wrong!! Is ghosting wrong? Yes it is. do I regret ghosting? Yes and I wish I was stronger and not soft. I felt trapped. But the person who got ghosted a saint? Hell no.not all.they need to self reflect. I was actually stunned by the amount of conviction the person was talking and how she was advising the viewers not to care and how they r absolutely nice people.what the heck! Maybe she could be but not all.people ghost for a reason.again ghosting is wrong but peopel talking like they could have never mad e mistake is beyond comprehension. Anyways just shared.
