Hi , I am in a very confused state now and need help and advise, I and my husband were in love and it was accepted only by my family, we tried to convince my in laws alot and they didn't give in, and my parents were tired of waiting and they told me according to astrology i should get married soon, so my husband agreed to marry me and we did the wedding the traditional way , his family doesn't know about it at all. Now they are coming back they want to have a wedding in India but my parents say that it cant happen as he shoudln't tie the thali twice and my husband and I are confused what to do. If we tell the truth we will ruin our relationship with my In laws for ever, if we dont my parents are not agreeing to it. what shoudl we do??