I was able to land a job which is two full days per week.The timings are 9 to 5.salary is $10 per hour.My commute with traffic will be 35 minutes to and fro.I asked my husband if he could commit to working from home so that he can help with kids and evening activities.He not only said a firm NO but had a big fight first thing in the morning.He said he cannot commit to that,his timings and job stress plus he feels before/aftercare is a waste of money for this salary.Plus my kids activities will be disturbed.He started saying that I have to forget what the world thinks and start to live etc etc..but honestly,as much as I try..it is so tough when am questioned time and again as to why am a homemaker when others are doing it. He literally yelled and said”Shut up!I have always been nice to you but for you, our priorities meaning nothing.Do not talk about your job with me”.He is basically a very nice guy and always treated me so well and respectful.He seemed very upset and am irritated with myself for starting this 2nd day of a new year. It is taking a toll on me these days which I admit.I wish I had studied,been in IT and earned well so that the beforecare/aftercare and nanny help would never been a problem. It is so frustrating when am not able to find help.My In-laws will not help.My mom has her own problems.My husband will not help me.How the heck do it work this out?? In my community,only myself and two other ladies are not working.One of the recently moved neighbor has a kid who is one year younger to mine and she has been asking me to drop her son from bus stop coz she can avoid morning daycare.To top it..she was like “you are a housewife only na..you have time.you can help right?”.. I am fuming today.Sorry guys..day didn’t start in a good note.