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Friends ..need help with relationship

Discussion in 'Indians in Toronto & vicinity' started by shiraji, Aug 21, 2007.

  1. shiraji

    shiraji New IL'ite

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    Hi there,
    I am married for 10 years and a have a loving husband(love marriage) and 2 lovely kids. Of late, my husband who was very open and straight forward had started to hide his email ids from me...he is a tech savvy person and has 5 ids for different strata of people, like official/semi official/clients/personal/friends...I dont suspect any affair but still this bugs me.i have asked him directly, but he said that if there is anything imp. he will tell me. this really hurts as to why there is this sudden change in behaviour...
    I do question him about the mails and calls he gets when I feel insecure.
    Earlier, he had this habit of watching p*** movies and chat with females, after much hard efforts i made him stop that...
    Genuine help appreciated.
    thanks
     
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  2. gurmeet

    gurmeet New IL'ite

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    Hi
    I am sorry to hear about this
    but .... I am in the same boat
    I have had an arranged marraige and I have felt this way since the beginning
    (married 18 years)
    and still he does this
    to me I have learned to live with it (maybe I don't want to know the truth)
    but you are different ..yours just started recently maybe you can talk to him about it and he will know how you feel
    He won't know if you don't talk

    Good luck
    Gurmeet
     

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