Friend's married life in problems.

Hi

I need all your suggestions in my friend's married life.

1. She was married in Dec'12. Its a love marriage. Both work for the same company and knows each other for more than 5 years. She is a christian and he is a hindu. My friend's father passed away when she was too young and her mother is not educated. The boy's parents did not agree for the marriage first and after that they have put on so many conditions. Like, she should leave everyone and come. No one should ever visit her and all that. After all this they got married and then everything seemed to be going on well.

2. Within a month of marriage, my friend got to know that their was some affair between her husband and another girl. There were so many complaints on him that he got suspended for a while. My friend told her MIL and BIL about this. And day by day the issue was getting bigger. My friend got conceived in March. Even then he continued affair with that girl, but was making so many false promises to my friend. She could not tolerate that and started tracking all his mails and phones. She caught him red handedly and everyone were on her side. my friend, her MIL and BIL even went to that girls house and gave warning.

3. Her MIL is a money minded person. My friend should give her salary completely to her. She sent my friend to her mom's place saying that its is ashada masam, so u stay there for a month..Within this one month, her husband started creating problems. He told that my friend is having so many affairs and even before marriage she is having it. He has turned all his family members on to his side. He created all stories in such a way, that everyone is telling her to resign her job. Her MIL was using very bad words. She told strictly that if you resign the job only come home otherwise don't come. She is in her 6th month now and nobody is even caring about that.

4. My friend doesn't want to resign her job, as she knows that they are going to house arrest and torture her mentally.

She has waited so long and left all of her family members and married him. But now he is giving her the torture of her life. What should she do now? Please pour in your valuable suggestions.

 

Nirmala, She is even thinking of that. But the only concern she has is abt her mother. she is the only daughter. And also my friend is so depressed right now that is confused of what to do.

Bhuvndhi, what you told is right. He was actually trying to postpone the marriage and all, but my frnd was stubborn that if they want to marry, then it shld be done soon, as she was already 31yrs old. Regarding baby, she didn't even have a clue about that. She was still asking doubts abt how the IC would happen..she told she never felt anything. I told her to give a complaint in WPC.

 

Swamy, My frnd loved him so deeply and madly. She came to US last year for 2 months on work assignment, thats when he started looking at the other girl. He was so clever that he didn't let my frnd get any doubts. I think its not physical attraction because he did not show any interest in my frnd soon after marriage. He is playing a mind game now.

As no one is there for her now, she is taking suggestions from my parents and another friend's parents. I just thought that I could get some good suggestions over here and posted it. Thank you.