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He already knows about your past few years back itself and he is ok with that and moved on,now why he wants to bring it in to picture?he was trying to blackmail you and harassing you mentally which makes u down and he surely knows that you wil go back to him,so playing a game here..and warn your sil not to involve in your matters,and anyway they revealed the affair to everyone and now every knows about it then wats there to think of it!!now you can be free and if you prove you are gud als no one believe you,let them talk and enjoy..now if you afraid of those things and beg him he wil blackmail you all over your life..now your son is 8yrs and soon he will understand wat everyone speaks about you and how he wil felt about it??it will distrub his mental health and he may hate you also..and your husband and sil wil surely tell those to your son also then how you feel ??can you accept your son hates??
What ever happened is happened and they spoiled your life verbally and now you can’t get it back to normal and if you are afraid of it ,then you can try for job in another coart far from them and don’t let anyone knows about it,keep your son away from him .raise your son as a single parent,for everyone parents are backbones should not be the life spoiler..now you think of your son he can be k with out him talk to your son ask him he can be with out father ??he is happy with his father or not??now he is mature to answer everything..
If you afraid of past and surrender he will spoil your sons life too..think and take decision don’t run from the situation stand and take decision..
And he wants share on your fathers earns so he was trying to torture you from that side too..

 

You dont know; but he is managing much more now, seeing how his 'dad' treats his mother.

Was your father this abusive?. Your dad was different to this man ( I assume?), so please dont compare.
Your husband got a 'dad' tag by making you a mother. He never got one because he is one.
I feel sad that you think you are worth nothing. You so deserve a ton better. Your husband has his feet dipped in shite and you willingly want to be his doormat.

Please, you are a brilliant daughter, sister and a womderful mum. Your mother, brother and your son love you and they deserve your love.
You are a goodwife too, but your H dosnt deserve it. He is going to take away a wife, a mother, a daughter and a sister away from you if you let him.

I feel so bad not able to give you tricks to stay with him because I see no hope in him treating you well . How long will you buy his sub-standard crumbs with your sacks of money?. Please think.
Hugs.

 

Oh and may be you should take out your sons name ( and yours if they are your real names)in the last post?, as its an internet forum with full access to anyone.

 

He wont reply because he want to bring you to his feets. He cant stop you from entering your own house.
He dont love you. He want only your money
Go to local police station and file a complaint. Or call
Help line
Helplines | National Commission for Women

Who will read such a long mail. Stop contact completely if you want to bring him back. Increase your demand. He will be very curious if you stop contacting him for a while. Dont even respond to his message.
Now you are giving him assurance that no matter how bad he treat you you will beg and go to him. Break that confidence.

No one cares a needy pleading individual.
You are an educated and smart woman, use your brain now

He is making you worthless. You deserve better dear.
If you cant help yourself, no one else can.

 

Thats for provoking you. Ignore or you can file complaint for harassing you through social media.