Friends, Advice Me In This Delicate Issue!

Amymy · May 21, 2016

I got married 8 years back. We had and have family issues which I would not understand properly in the initial years. I was always worried about my research. I am in 35. We don't have kids. Still both of us have so much of unpleasantness in life.I don't know what to do next?
I am very much confused about having Kids?
Sorry for the non detailed statements.
Advice me

yellowmango · May 24, 2016

Too little information Op.

guesshoo · May 25, 2016

Get yourself some counselling so that you can sift and sort out whatever is bothering you and prioritise which issues to tackle first.

SunPa · May 25, 2016

Quite a few ILites give sound advice if only you could give a little more basic info.

I got married 8 years back. We had and have family issues which I would not understand properly in the initial years. I was always worried about my research.
Research as part of your work, or study?

I am in 35. We don't have kids. - Didnt try or have fertility issues

Still both of us have so much of unpleasantness in life.
Why? - In-law issue, financial issues, husband not treating you well, vices of husband, EMA, not satisfied emotionally or sexually?