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Friend, Jealous Of Everything

Discussion in 'Friends & Neighbours' started by Sweety82, Nov 23, 2020.

  1. Sweety82

    Sweety82 Gold IL'ite

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    Thank you very much for your opinion @Thyagarajan I stopped mentioning my success already. I was very hesitant...
     
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    Sweety82 Gold IL'ite

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    Thanks for sharing your experience.....i actually shared my inconvenient moments with that friend, in response to your message to seek for an advice. But I think I can be mistaken by @Thyagarajan. So, I deleted it. Sorry for that.
     
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  3. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

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    :hello:Somewhere it is written - " tell about your friends. I shall tell you what you are".
    Is this dictum applicable here - I wonder.
    Some like others follow only their beliefs, their very own ideas and even some practices and habits. They boast about it. But when they boast one has just got to listen or divert attention to something else. Never speak of your parallels which would be most tempting to do thereby disclosing or divulging your personal opinion belief faith likes and dislikes. In what way others going to be benefitted by our blabber except that they might turn jealous and even end up their disrupting our progress surreptitiously. Sometimes our own own words, statements can boomerang at very wrong time, in wrong moment in others' presence.
    One has to be guarded with his or her own words and utterances.Remember, it is said in usa " never to open all buttons at one go".
    Thanks & regards.
     
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    Grantre Senior IL'ite

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    A jealous friend likely feels bad about themselves. Therefore, they are eager to downgrade the achievements of those around them.
     
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    Sweety82 Gold IL'ite

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    Yes may be... To be honest, she is good on one hand.. But certain things are really in a situation where we are on opposite track. Iam In a high dilemma now.
     
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    If you are getting a strong feeling that your friend is not very happy in your happiness then most probably you are right. They say friendships are for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Just think that this friend was for a season only and that season is gone. I think you are finding it hard to let go but it’s ok. You grow apart from people and it won’t be the first or last time. This is part of life.
     
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    Vedhavalli Finest Post Winner

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    Yes this what people make envy.
    They aren't happy people won't be happy for others. Make others achievements, jobs school grade put as low. Make others feel miserable, these type ruin parties weddings commonly seen as uncles & aunties of relative circle.

    Staying away is the one solution since friends for long time you can keep minimal contact. Once a week one call not more than 10 minutes. I understand what you going through
     

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