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Forced to pierce the nose!!!Anybody else???

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by shakambari, Sep 5, 2009.

  1. Reesha

    Reesha Silver IL'ite

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    oh scarry...i didnt get this situation because this tradition is in tamiladu state mostly. That girl had right to oppose that worst thing to her because it is killing her self respect
     
  2. MaliniHari

    MaliniHari Gold IL'ite

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    Yep, I was forced to have one. Nose and ears. People were ready to see me cry. The Goldsmith was there to pierce. My new to-be-family was there. I stood for myself and said a clear NO. I said, I respect your family tradition but I cannot carry it on my skin. Though there were fundas and certain dissatisfaction, FIL stood for me and said, if she does not want it, let her not! We old people often forget we are getting old! I cant tolerate if my daughter is being forced, I cannot do it to my dil either!I was surprised! :) Though MIL was not happy, the ceremony ended with my little cousin who always wanted to pierce her ears! :) That way I was spared!
     
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    sdiva20 Platinum IL'ite

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    Good for you Malini !!!
     
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    Thats a narrow escape - I must say
     
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    Tanu6 New IL'ite

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    This time when i went to India my MIL forced me to pierce my nose. Am actually married for more than 3 years now. She told everybody in the family have pierced their nose except you and made me do it. I still repent for not saying no for that. I did it without saying a word. Now i have a purple bump next to the piercing which is not going. Am wearing a slightly bigger nose pin to cover this. I have even bought a very small nose pin and waiting for the bump to go so that i can wear it.
     

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