1. Would you like to join the IL team? See open jobs!
    Dismiss Notice
  2. What can you teach someone online? Tell us here!
    Dismiss Notice
  3. If someone taught you via skype, what would you want to learn? Tell us here!
    Dismiss Notice

Finest Posts Nominations Of The Committee - January 2021

Discussion in 'Finest Posts of IL' started by Cheeniya, Dec 31, 2020.

  1. DDream

    DDream Finest Post Winner

    Messages:
    1,441
    Likes Received:
    3,010
    Trophy Points:
    285
    Gender:
    Female
  2. Cheeniya

    Cheeniya Super Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    12,095
    Likes Received:
    15,323
    Trophy Points:
    538
    Gender:
    Male
    iyerviji and Needtobestrong like this.
  3. Cheeniya

    Cheeniya Super Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    12,095
    Likes Received:
    15,323
    Trophy Points:
    538
    Gender:
    Male
    @Viswamitra
    My dear Viswa
    Thank you for your nomination of the response by @sokanasanah to @Caughtinbetween in her thread Need Recommendations
    Sokanasanah is always extremely helpful, speaks with a sense of responsibility and precise.
    You have said it all. Need I add more?
    Sri
     
  4. Cheeniya

    Cheeniya Super Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    12,095
    Likes Received:
    15,323
    Trophy Points:
    538
    Gender:
    Male
    @Viswamitra
    My dear Viswa
    Thank you for your nomination of Animals Petition God by @HariLakhera
    It is a very interesting post by HariLakhera. I am surprised that threads like this receive such poor response!
    I have read about animal rulers in George Orwell's Animal Farm. This post by HariLakhera is just as interesting!
    Sri
     
  5. Cheeniya

    Cheeniya Super Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    12,095
    Likes Received:
    15,323
    Trophy Points:
    538
    Gender:
    Male
    @Viswamitra
    My dear Viswa
    Thank you for your sixth and final nomination of @Metamorphic 's response in the thread Depressed And Confused In My Marriage
    Her response starts with a hard hitting 'Do you really think your MIL is a person worth dying for ??'
    Some sane sentiments make it a very helpful post. I like the advice 'But remember, you will do whatever you do for protecting your life and sanity and not for teaching any lesson to your H'
    I entirely agree with you
    Sri
     
    Metamorphic likes this.
  6. Needtobestrong

    Needtobestrong Platinum IL'ite

    Messages:
    1,054
    Likes Received:
    1,197
    Trophy Points:
    283
    Gender:
    Female
  7. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    33,649
    Likes Received:
    26,809
    Trophy Points:
    640
    Gender:
    Female
  8. HariLakhera

    HariLakhera Platinum IL'ite

    Messages:
    1,465
    Likes Received:
    1,576
    Trophy Points:
    283
    Gender:
    Male
    Thanks.
    I was expecting some good response but as usual, it seems to have failed to inspire interest.
     
  9. Cheeniya

    Cheeniya Super Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    12,095
    Likes Received:
    15,323
    Trophy Points:
    538
    Gender:
    Male
    @Rihana
    Thank you for your nomination of a post by @DDream in the thread Motivating Kids When 1 Parent Is A Narcissist
    This one is a rare case of a male asking for advice/suggestion from ladies about post-divorce situation viv-a-vis the kids. And @DDream has covered the subject effectively and clearly.
    Of the various advices given by DD, I liked this best:
    "respect your ex opinions if it benefits kids"
    Since the OP is so concerned about how the diverse and sharing of children would affect the kids, this advice can give both a sense of responsibility.
    Good one this is!
     
    Rihana likes this.
  10. Cheeniya

    Cheeniya Super Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    12,095
    Likes Received:
    15,323
    Trophy Points:
    538
    Gender:
    Male
    @Rihana
    Thanks a lot for your nomination of Discussing Finances And Wills With Young Adult Children by @Laks09
    That sums up the point Laks has made at length. Will or no will, adult children must be kept informed of the family's financial standing. That will inculcate a sense of responsibility in them.
     
    Laks09, Viswamitra and Rihana like this.

Share This Page