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Finest Posts Nominations Of The Committee - January 2021

Discussion in 'Finest Posts of IL' started by Cheeniya, Dec 31, 2020.

  1. Cheeniya

    Cheeniya Super Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    @Viswamitra
    My dear Viswa
    Thank you for your nomination of the response by @DDream in the thread Forgiving In Laws
    I have loved Dreams advices to the distressed. She comblnes her compassion with a lot of practical wisdom as we see here
    "You dont have to forgive them if you don't want to, but you have to forgive yourself for wasting time thinking about them"
    A sound post!
    Sri
     
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    Last edited by a moderator: Jan 20, 2021
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  3. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

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    :hello:A crumpled paper event elevated to nomination level. Feel good time for me indeed.
    Thanks to madam sister @Rihana .
     
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    :hello:Feel humbled. Thank you from bottom of my heart.
    Regards.
     
  5. Thyagarajan

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    :hello:
    One is at ease while Reread for editing and reediting, I found selection of that that particular font (6) is whole good. I think it is a right measure!

    Mine too myopic and so it is selfishly done. Thanks for adulation.
    Regards.
     
  6. Viswamitra

    Viswamitra IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Cheeniya Sir,

    I am here to nominate the response of @sokanasanah to @Caughtinbetween Need Recommendations. When he writes here to help someone, he is up to the point, refers to the right resource, and summarizes his views so accurately so that OP can make her own judgment. His posts are pleasing to read because he shares content as is without influencing the opinion of OP. It is an art to write like that as we all tend to give our opinion.
     
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  7. Viswamitra

    Viswamitra IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Cheeniya Sir,

    I am here to make my fifth nomination for the month of January 2021. We all know what a deep thinker Hari Sir is. But this one about animals' petition to the Lord made me think so much as to why a human birth is necessary for salvation? The only answer I came up with is our ability to understand our own Karma and eliminate them as part of the purification process and achieve salvation.

    @HariLakhera's thread Animals Petition God is nominated.
     
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  8. Viswamitra

    Viswamitra IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Cheeniya Sir,

    I am here to nominate my last and final one for January 2021. When it comes to providing simple, straight, and sound advice, generally, I look to read @Metamorphic's responses. The one I have nominated here is no different. She knows how to calm down someone who is agitated.

    I nominate Depressed And Confused In My Marriage.
     
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  9. Rihana

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    My third nomination for the month is this post by @DDream which was in response to a question about how to motivate kids in a challenging situation.
    Motivating Kids When 1 Parent Is A Narcissist

    There was a time when 4 or 5 "usual suspects" members used to get tagged by OP's in Relationship forum. Now, they only need to tag DDream. : )
     
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    My nomination number four for the month is this timely reminder to parent of teens and very young adults by @Laks09
    Discussing Finances And Wills With Young Adult Children

    The topic is a little sobering but never too early to add that to the bottom of the to-do list. And then resolve to nudge it nearer to the top of the list. : )

    I also wanted to nominate this post because it provides many starting points of a task that looks gigantic and parents can choose which ever is the easiest one for them.
     
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