Hi @Rihana, I would like to nominate @DDream's response to @nolife in the thread Anyone Been Through This Type Of Marriage?. DDream had suggested OP to how to think in the form of asking questions herself to understand the situation very well to take a right decision. I usually do that when my children ask suggestions on certain situations when they feel dilemma in taking decision. I tell my opinion and also suggest them to write down questions. It provides them a list of pros and cons of that particular situation.