Finest Post Nominations - August 2021

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  1. Aug 13, 2021 #21
    Viswamitra

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    Dear Cheeniya Sir,

    I am here to nominate SLN Sir's thread It Begs The Question, Is Begging Honourable ?. When he writes his threads, a lot of thoughts go into his writings. He gives examples and make a solid conclusion at the end of each thread he writes.
     
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    Cheeniya

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    @Cheeniya sir,
    My next nomination is @1Sandhya for her response here. Sandhya is always concise and practical with her responses. Some of her observations in responses to posters have helped me be more practical.


    The art of knowing what to say, when and how is something that is simply not everyone’s cup of tea. Even today, I have trouble in clamping down on information sharing, be it with spouse or in other professional settings. The art of acting without grand announcements is even harder to achieve.

    I hope the OP is able to leverage Sandhya’s practical solutions in her situation.
     
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    Cheeniya

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    @Laks09
    Dear Laks
    Thank you for your nomination of the response by @1Sandhya to the thread Am I Doing Something Wrong ?
    I must say that your write up in nominating this post is a lot more than how I normally summarise my acknowledgement. Further Sandhya has a way of expressing her views that sound so very practical and down to earth.
    Sri
     
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    RatnaMalliswari

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    Cheeniya

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    @iyerviji
    My dear Viji
    Thank you for your nomination of @RatnaMalliswari 's response to the thread https://indusladies.com/community/threads/choosing-to-be-single.314445/
    The fourteen point formula for a happy and successful married life prescribed by her may not be workable in all cases according to her. There is always an element of uncertainty in each formula. A harmonious married life is winning a bonanza in a lottery.
    In our times, we plunged into a marriage without any expectation. We started building up a strong relationship brick by brick. I am saying this as a man who has been married for 54 years:blush:
     
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    Very true
     
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    1Sandhya

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    Thank you @Laks09 for nominating my post and for your kind words.
     
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    Hello @Cheeniya sir
    Correctly said.No one give 100% formula for Happy and Successful marriage,just basic guidelines can be provided.
    All others are coach and spectators,this is the game where coach too don't know everything.As very couple life varies, couple are real players in ground.
    Others can give tips and suggestions that help in selection of bride/groom, handling issues after marriage......,just to bind them to stay together, ultimate happiness is in couple hands.
    Real bonding depends on fragrance they add in their life,it's just as making beautiful garland.Fragrance and beauty of garland is upon selection of flowers.
    Regards
    Ratna
     
    RatnaMalliswari, Aug 22, 2021
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