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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by dollysonpari, Oct 4, 2020.

  1. GregoriaBoul

    GregoriaBoul Silver IL'ite

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    I am sorry to hear about what you are feeling, I wish you overcome that soon!
     
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    sarvantaryamini Gold IL'ite

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    How can he prevent you from finding a job? Please accept that he has no feelings for you and try to work on yourself. If a miracle happens, it would be great, but you can't bank on such a thing. I am seething at how people can do such mean things. May you get strength to deal with this nonsense.
     
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    shravs3 IL Hall of Fame

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    Not sure if this is the same girl or different. If it’s a relative then how does caste come into picture?
     
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    Dear OP , answer his Question. Even though it was male. A lot will change if you are USA and in EAD / GC / Citiz.

    Laws are way different here. He can get royally screwed in USA.
     
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    Now Abused H4 Visa Holders can Apply for Work Permit in USA
    If you don’t have EAD you are entitled to get EAD for 2 years on the basis of domestic abuse. After that you need to either get H1B or leave the country.

    I read somewhere that if a person on H1B abuses his partner, there are chances of him getting deported.
    But this is definitely not an advantage for you as he can file divorce in India and get married to his longtime girlfriend.
    You will be left alone with kids without any help.

    So you need to be tactful. Either compromise with this setup or get divorced in US with alimony.
     
    Last edited: Oct 6, 2020

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