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Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Jul 24, 2020.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Whenever we meet a person and if they ask how are you, we say fine , even if we are not fine. When the question is asked immediately we reply fine. Being fine is the state of mind. When we are in problem we cant share with everyone, only to some we are able to share. When we share our problems with someone, they should be in a position to console us, some dont know how to console them . Some people have the knack of consoling them and also solving their problems. Light troubles speak, great troubles are silent

    Some are able to keep their feelings in their heart and they dont let out their feelings. But instead of keeping and worrying themselves it is better to let out then we feel light. Also sharing with others , they will be able to solve our problem. I cant keep anything in my heart especially if I am worried, when I share with others only I feel good and light

    In science you must not talk before youknow, in art you must not talk before you do, in literature u must not talk before you think. We should not get upset with little jerks in life because life is like a road and problems are like speed breakers. They save us from big accidents. I will be a reason for one's happiness and not be a part of one's sadness and not a reason for it

    Happiness and sorrows are part of life. Too much of happiness is also not good. God gives us some sorrow in between so that we will know what is life and also we will think of Him.
     
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  2. girvani

    girvani Platinum IL'ite

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    Dear Viji amma,

    A snippet from your heart as always. You reminded me of my amma, she never keeps anything in her mind and she never carry her sadness more than few minutes. I used to have urge to talk about my feelings and over the years I didn't have a good listening years or those who I shared used that info against me. Since then I started journalling my feelings and it helps me so much to anchor my self.
    Vani
     
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    Dear @iyerviji ...thanks for writting this, much needed ..and always a delight to read what you write...
     
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    :hello: So soon, our Indefatigable senior fellow sister member as carved out yet another beautiful essay on “FEEL” & it’s glories in short and sweet words as usual . Yes the world upon asking “ How do you do?” Would respond invariably “am fine” regardless of their circumstances. But who began like this? No I don’t know but it has become force of habit always.

    You are right. It is believed, While happiness by sharing get multiplied sorrows get divided!” Happiness and sorrow seem to be on either side of the coin. In the vicissitudes of life, scope for that kind of FEEL is inbuilt.

    But it is difficult to open up to every one as there is a lurking danger as the listener would use it later to punish or humiliate the teller. Many experienced this boomerang in their life when their friendliness turned bitter. Gossipers take advantage! One can vent their sad feelings in virtual forums in a guarded manner and with confidants was to get the load off their chest.

    Positive feels should be expressed at the right moment in right place to the right people which would pay rich dividends in the long run.
    Story in link
    16 வயதினிலே ஜனாதிபதிய தொடர்பு கொண்ட வீராங்கனை
    synopsis of which is as under .
    A girl of 14 was one of the selected four to speak to president when the latter concluded his address to students. The boldness and the confidence of the girl in asking certain questions and feeling she got moved Kalam sahib leaving his card carrying his e mail Id.

    When her poor parents arranged a wedding between this girl at her age 15 to an old man as third wife, she retrieved card of Kalam and sent an e mail requesting cause marriage stopped as she would take up higher studies. Kalam known for his elephant memory as president of India then sent message to the district collector in Trichy. Kalia Perumal IPS arrived at the scene of the marriage at Uraiur and stopped the illegal wedding of that girl of 15.

    The girl revealed all this on the stage when Kaliaperumal was Felicitated at Indian diaspora in USA. The the girl thanked Kalia Perumal and Kalam for their help but for which she would not have done doctorate and married a young phd Both of them in US HOLDING SENIOR MANAGEMENT POSITION EARNING OVER TEN MILLION $ per annum.

    Feel expressed in time fetched enormous dividends later.

    Thanks and Regards.
     
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    sarvantaryamini Gold IL'ite

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    True Vijima, there was a time when I used to start pouring when someone asked that question, especially someone I knew. Now I am slowly learning not to tell them anything.
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Thanks for your first feedback.Gkad my post reminded your amma .thanks for sharing your experience
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    You are welcome. Thanks for your compliments.
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Thanks for your detailed feedback. And sharing about that girl.
     
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    Glad you have learnt to be careful while talking. Thanks for your feedback
     
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