hi friends, im here today very confused. background as most know - married for 3 yrs. got a 1.5 yr old DS. living with in laws. im a full time working mother. now the issue - of late i feel that dh does not like spending time with me. weekdays he is busy entire time. comes home only by 9.30 pm and then watches match til 11.30 . by then im asleep. weekends, he wants to have fun/meet/hang around with friends. never talks about talking /cozying or spending time with me. its always me who has to ask him to spend time im so hurt - feel neglected. the more i tel him to spend time, the more he gets angry. the more we fight. im wondering whats the solution - should i do the silent treatment/ignore him and act as if i don't need him? should i not tel him to spend time so that he realizes on his own? im so upset - all weekdays im busy with work, baby and so pooped. he is not available emotionally to me. i feel left out and unloved... dunno what to do. my heart is crying for his presence near me. its so difficult. but my mind says - the more i beg him, the more he wil treat me like ****... please help me friends ..