hi all , as some of you know ups and downs in my marriage from my past few posts. Well when i was thinking things are getting better, my hubby started those episodes of disrespecting me , shouting at me etc again. Well every couple fight sometimes and occasional aggression and fight is ok , but in those relationship there is occasional care and love too. Even if i don't expect much from him these days after what he did to me in past( giving silent treatment for months, talking bad about me to his family, disrespecting me in front of everyone including family and neighbor etc) , but i took that as bad chapter of my life that happened out of his anger. But even if we are in ok term i feel like he doesn't love me. I felt really bad yesterday when i told him i have real bad back pain in bed (i get severe pain on period) , first he didn't respond then he said how come i have pain suddenly as i was ok few hours ago(i was busy with housework and baby stuff, i didnt tell him that before) , he made me feel i was faking. It really hurted.Then he said what i expect from him , he is not a doctor. He could have offered me some painkiller or hot water bag or something when i was in such a bad pain , but instead he hurted me with his words. this morning i told him i didnt sleep whole night because of pain and also because baby wasn't much well too. HE shouted again saying i know about baby's health better than you bla bla , i don't know what got into him , suddenly he started being aggressive at me. so he doesn't respect me. He never cares about my health even when im not well , he never asks how am i.whenever we go out like get together , he completely avoids me like im no-one to him. i see other couple, where husband come asking for wives if they are ok time to time. He never appreciates anything i do.HE doesn't talk to or like my side of family much. Only time he talks nicely to me is when in bed ,i feel used when he does that. I used to think he is bad at expressing , some men are like that. But i have started wondering is it worth saving relation with man who doesn't care for you when you need him , doesn't respect you or doesn't appreciate you? I cry alone so many times thinking abt all this. I feel so suffocated. IS there a way you can expect/demand CARE/LOVE/RESPECT/APPRECIATION from such husband ?