Hi Hema, I am new in this forum. I have seen your posting. Sorrow, Happy in matter is in our hand. Any one in the globe is enjoying life with happiness without sorrow. Life is the mixture and also seeing the thing and facing the problem is a challenging one. When any one in happy mood needs person with to share and the sameway sorrow too have to be shared. when you share the bad feelings with your friends your stress will go out and you will feel lighter and feel better. Don't compare yourself with any one. Because you think the others are happy. They may have also problems a different kind. Your happyness is in your hand Mrs.Hema. Be bold to face problem do not fear or feel for it. What had already happened is history no one can change it and we should not munch it often. However you can revisit to analyse what are the acts and situations resulted in this result, to get the solution. Just analyse what you as a person and god's child can do to come out with that type of problem not to get repeated. Solutions can be written down without consulting any one. Think with a cool mind yourself. No solution is wrong and right and what you need the result which makes you happy, fulfilled. Please try one by one without hesitating the result you get. Try to live with the blessings you got from the God. You know one says that is "Birds never think morrow" They never save, they get up early in the morning and go for food it is being given. They never worry for tomorrw. Please live for to-day because What is now is true and enjoy that without thinking about the past. What is next moment is mistry. Do not think about that and waste your present time. Enjoy! Enjoy! Be Happy! Be Happy! What ever you want to do for your happyness be bold don't worry for the society or for any body. Be Bold and Be Brave to face the situation. Make any situation be as your own. Be Happy Be Hapy & Be happy. Let me pray the Almighty for showering the blessings to make you Happy, cherrised, fulfilled and kee in peace. Thanks and Regards Mrs.Hema. Pacha.