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Feeling Lonely. Is There Any Support Group Or Shall We Start One ?

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  1. CoolPie

    CoolPie Silver IL'ite

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    I have been feeling lonely and depressed after failing in marriage. Currently I am living with my parents and there is hardly any friend to even talk to. The emotional turmoil is killing me.
    Is there any support group in India/Tamilnadu for single separated women or for divorced ?
    I feel if there is one we all can feel a lot better. Wecant rely on parents all the tome for support. Can connect together and be for each other like friends or even siblings instead of living this in a devastated state. I think many of us will be able to overcome our shortcomings and be helpful towards one another and even our kids can interact with each other.
    Is anyone interested ? If you all agree we can mail and exchange numbers, build trust and rely upon ot open a watsapp group for the same.
    But I dont know how not to allow fraudsters from getting in.
    Any inputs ? Pls reply.
     
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  2. Tubinbataye

    Tubinbataye Gold IL'ite

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    Dont worry.This too shall past. Living with parents after a failed marriage is another level of pain. If you're working distract yourself with some career boosting courses. If youre not working try to get a job. If anyone talks about your past, ignore. First find peace within yourself. :)
     
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    I know how that loneliness feels.. but good thing is you are not alone... You have your parents. Do they support you? Do you have kids? How old?
     
  4. anika987

    anika987 Finest Post Winner

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    I understand.hope you find your emotional strength soon.

    Take time to heal.It is okay to feel and go through what you do.


    Can you join any hobby classes where u can have an opportunity to meet like minded people?

    Start reading good books or listen to podcasts and Ted talks ..many are very inspiring.
     
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    Op

    why don’t you start new Facebook group for local divorcee women. There must be many women in same boat. Maybe you can hide your pic and real name and be strict to allow people before including in that group. I read in Mumbai newspaper that there is already a group of divorcee women who really enjoying support of each other.
     
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    I’m just n your shoes. I can join your group.
     
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    Thank you indu balram.

    I really want to start a group and get together with like minded women. I am trying to message you so that we can start one together and slowly may be we can add in whoever like us wants to join.
    Thanks for the response.
     
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    Ok looking forward
     
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    curlytweethere Platinum IL'ite

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    This is a wonderful idea. Yes although our parents n friends might not treat us differently I feel some thing is still a miss
     
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    Dear curlytweethere
    You can also join the group if you prefer baby.
    Leta all join hands together and be supportive of one another.
     
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