feeling lonely and sad n depressed and fed up this my Husband!!!!

Hi all,
The same thing happened to me..... Initially I use to hit my husband whenever he yells at me..
It became a big issue and he started complaining to his parents and siblings that I hit him.....
My in laws told me kindly not to continue hitting him and advised me to be patient and loving
My husband is also a very short tempered person

Nowadays I have changed myself.... I don't shout, hit or cry
Within 5 minutes after his yelling he will come to me saying sorry
It worked for me all these days our fights became more serious because of me shouting and hitting
Even men have so much tension and responsibilities ....we need to understand what they feel
I keep the house clean,
Always smile and thank him for even small help which he does for me.
We don't fight often now