Feeling Hopeless and extremely depressed

Discussion in 'Fertility & Trying to Conceive' started by hivid, Jun 26, 2013.

  1. adinil

    adinil Silver IL'ite

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    great
    a big hug to you :)
     
  2. luckyme

    luckyme Silver IL'ite

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    Dear hivid,

    See so many ppl are there to cheer u up...

    I may not understand ur problems but i can understand ur pain...u need not be depressed as it's going to make u regress ...u should progress by keeping a positive attitude....u have so many examples of women who have fought and found success...read all the threads n u'll know....u have so many who are in the same boat as u....who r fighting with a smile...

    It's a struggle to get things these days...we all live in a kind of stress that may take a toll on our health..but that's why there are treatments too...

    u said u do have things which others may not have....please do count ur blessings before giving up like that....

    Just becoz others get things earlier than us ...we feel we are behind the race n must rush...and we lose patience n give up easily.....Have faith ...I m 33 and if I feel I have time...I feel u surely have more time...

    All of us have our stories to tell u...mine may sound a tough one to me ...but when I look around my problems are not as big....and when others can maintain a positive outlook...why should u pity urself ...one should learn to challenge the problems...what wud life be if everything was easy in life....

    If u can't keep urself from thinking about ttc...involve urself other things which interest u...which can take ur mind away at least for some time....it's not easy to come out of these thoughts.. but find a way...make a plan....

    I have started doing so many things now that keep me happy n away from negative thoughts when I face the failure each cycle...I know I m working on a plan....

    Find ur way...u r strong

    God bless n loads of wishes for ur success
     
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  3. sheshin

    sheshin Gold IL'ite

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    Dear, I understand your pain. Please don't drag yourself into depressing mode. I wanted to tell you something regarding the treatments. With pcos and male issues, it is good to consult reproductive endocrinologist than normal gynecologist. Gynecs expertise is not enough to handle PCOS patients when it comes to conceiving. I'm not saying it is not possible. But as per my gynec it is good to try upto 2 to 3 cycles with them and if it doesn't click it is better to consult RE instead of wasting time and money with them. RE s are trained to deal with these issues so they have advanced medical approach to the issue.
    Try to have a discussion with your doctor and make a clear plan. 28 is not a number to worry. Have a positive approach, eat organic as much possible. Take prenatal regularly. Do exercise to keep you fit. Pray hard. It will happen soon. All the best.
     
  4. luckwaves

    luckwaves Platinum IL'ite

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    Tight hugs to you and my special respect to your patience and courage .
    Your message brings lots of hope dear. When we worry , we always tend to look at people in the higher side and we never look down . Especially in this TTC phase we always see why she is gifted and why not me . This message came like an eye opener dear ...

    I will include you in my prayers dear , may The God bless you soon with a cute and healthy child .

    Good luck dear
     
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  5. revathysiva

    revathysiva Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi

    Pls try this dr Girija (Ayurveda) of Sanjeevani. she has clinic at Adyar. I have heard that she has cured for lot of such cases, since you have put ur place as Chennai pls visit her once. My daughter has PCOD and I am going to her now..
     
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    Dear Hivid,

    Tight hugs to you dear.

    I am not going to say anything new . As others have suggested valuable and healthy ideas to motivate you ...just dropped in to say don't worry .. Just have a single thought in mind that you are destined to have kids don't ever suspect your thought . One day we all will have our day till that lets make positive happenings around .. So when we turn back we don't regret on this.. Dear life is short so don't miss the small small happiness happening around . Just dance to the tune played by the almighty ... If not this month the next month is there and lets not give up till we succeed .

    Good luck to all.
     
  7. dimhere

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    I salute all your courage and bravery....Hivid, luckysangeetha, katakam and others.....Chin up and stay strong...Your moment is just around the corner...

    Love and sticky baby dust to you all...all our best wishes will definitely bring good luck your way...:)
     
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    Hi Hivid,

    There are a lot of ladies in this forum sufferring from infertility problems. And I am also one of them. Initially, it takes time to accept the fact that we are in the midst of a rough phase of life. But it is better if we accept the fact and start working towards improving our condition. Depression, confusion, distress, pain... all these things are not going to give anything good to us. Rather they will push us more towards our problems and problems will get aleviated.

    I suggest you read the book "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne and check out the below links.
    One In Ten Million: My Fight to Get Pregnant Despite Premature Ovarian Failure
    Low AMH Success Stories | Low AMH | Fertile Heart : Fertile Heart Natural Fertility Treatments for Woman

    These links are mainly for people sufferring from premature ovarian failure. But reading the success stories and knowing many other things would help you get a positive perspective to life. Try to find out the root cause of your infertility and start working towards improving the health. Along with the conventional allopathy medicaiton, try Yoga, Meditation, Accupuncture, Ayurveda, Homeopathy... whichever you feel can help you.

    Its all about our perspective towards our own life which determines the events of our life dear. If you think positive, things will surely turn in your favour. Whatever we get in our life, is for our good, whether we get hurt with it at some point of time. People in this forum are very helpful and supportive. You can vent out and feel better with the friends out here.

    Hope you get better and start you journey to parenthood soon

    Regards,
    Wantmyangel
     
  9. luckysangeetha

    luckysangeetha Gold IL'ite

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    Thanx luckwaves.

    Life is to fight and make things happen.We all are tested according to our capacity and problems also occur accordingly. Break the issues and come out of the shell.

    THERE IS NOTHING IMPOSSIBLE IN THIS WORLD.CALL THE ALMIGHTY.THERE IS NO OTHER BEST ALTERNATIVE.HE IS THE ONE WHO ANSWERS BACK NO ONCE ELSE WILL DO.

    Inner peace is more important. Keep fighting you will win one day.. I am damn sure
     
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  10. nihara007

    nihara007 Senior IL'ite

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    very inspiring sangeetha.....ur words mean a lot and bring light for all those who are in ttc...The day will come wen we remember the ttc struggles holding our little ones in our hand...
     

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