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Feeling Depressed

Discussion in 'Pregnancy & Labor' started by Ishaan10, Oct 10, 2018.

  1. Ishaan10

    Ishaan10 Bronze IL'ite

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    Thanks for ur wishes....I wanted a girl baby during my 1st pregnancy itself.. ..but I got a lovely boy who makes my life more colourful...im already in love with my second one...this time too I expected a girl but I was disappointed, I cant come out of it bcoz my whole family expected girl...everyone saying it will be very nice na if it was girl like that...n it will be tough to manage two boys blah blah... everything makes me feel that I m going to miss enjoying girl baby...
     
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  2. amritavarshini

    amritavarshini Bronze IL'ite

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    I have two girls and trust me it isnt easy to manage...esp Especially the younger one.
    She is very naughty and keeps us on our feet the whole day..Don't worry about the remarks made by others..When I was expecting my second one everyone said it's going to be a boy no doubt blah.blah..All I used to pray in both the pregnancies was that the babies be hale and healthy..Rest everything is secondary...No harm in seeing a doc/ counsel who can help you out..And most importantly don't listen to others
     
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    ponniambati New IL'ite

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    Hello dear ladies,
    i m 34 years old and have a daughter at 5 years old. ttc for three years. no use. got two abortions ( feb2017 and dec 2017) at same 6 or 7 weeks. after first abortion went for torch test. it showed rubella positive. very depressed. now taking treatment dt gave sephene 100. two cycles had gone. not conceiving. i goe blurred vision may be it isca side effect of the tablet. so stopped the tablets. did not take for third cycle. my mensus cycle is 28 or 29 days perfect. but why i am not conceiving. what to do. very depressed. i hav no mother. she passed away before my marriage. i cant tell to my father. i dont know how to console my self.
     
  4. SonyThumma

    SonyThumma Senior IL'ite

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    its just your hormones ... hang in there... Things will get better once you recover. I would say give it 6 weeks before everything gets back to normal and you can't stop gushing about your new kid.
     
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    ponniambati New IL'ite

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    Thank you for your reply.
     

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