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Feeling Depressed .. Is There No Hope

Discussion in 'Astrology Numerology & More!' started by EagerForInfo, Jan 30, 2021.

  1. EagerForInfo

    EagerForInfo Silver IL'ite

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    I feel like I have everything but nothing..
    My parents are very highly educated.. yes it is very rare to have highly educated parents as I see my friends and their parents .. my mom is beautiful.. we had it all.. but still people would think we would be happy.

    But every day there is something to worry about.. not little bit but like to the point we cant think about anything about the problem and cannot sleep either..

    My father got heart disease.. weve been out of the hospital a looot .. bypass was suggested but dangerous as he had diabetes.. somehow we passed 8 years after diagnosis without bypass.. Just when I was telling myself maybe I worry about everything.. see dad mad it 8 years without bypass.. he passed out while walking and got bypass the next day!

    Sister is a school topper.. beautiful too.. not to toot my own horns... but suddenly after my dad's diagnosis she got mentally il .. got married soon after to a handsome educated boy.. paretns thought she was just depressed.. so they did not do anything on purpose .. but my sister got divorced due to the mental illness shortly after marriage..

    Ok still paretns are adjusting girl is educated will work and earn and pass life productivlely now again..
    she falls and breaks her tooth .. she sleeps all the time..

    like this the list goes on and on and on.. no matter how much we adjust there is another issue to torment us..

    Please there must be a remedy... Can anyone suggest remedies?
     
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  2. Hopikrishnan

    Hopikrishnan Gold IL'ite

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    Astrology, Numerology & more... sub forum ?
    Educated, good looking people getting a bypass or divorce ? Seems pretty ordinary.
    School topping sister, who got divorced, broke tooth and sleeps all the time is the only one who has a remedy.

    Top row is counted from 1 to 16, left to right, bottom row is counted from 17 to 32, also left to right. For example, tooth number 31 would be bottom row, right-hand-side, penultimate tooth. Even if the wisdom teeth had been removed, for this count, assume they are still there.

    Find her tooth number that she had broken. This number is the key. If it is a two digit number, you would add them up to a single digit, except in two cases, 11 and 22. That single digit is your sister's Life Path Number. Look up LPN in any numerology site to give you the details of what she needs to do in order to advance her life.
     
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    Few remedies I know:

    - None of the outside things give you a steady and lasting happiness. Happiness has to come from within. Never seek happiness outside of yourself, it traps us in a cycle of expectations and disappointments.

    - Happiness comes from learning to accept, accept our limitations, imperfections, vulnerabilities and our incapacity to change things outside of us. Life happens as destined. We just need to keep manoeuvring ourselves to what is best, what brings joy and what makes us satisfied, content and happy.

    - Ironically, trying to achieve happiness is sometimes detrimental to the idea of being happy. It is OK to be sad, disappointed, depressed and all the rest. Actually without those, "a state of happiness" does not have the significance we hold for it in our minds. Life has its ups and downs. We must learn to embrace both.

    - Change the focus. Our minds are tricky, we tend to be what we focus upon. If you keep focussing on I don't have, I don't like, I cannot and so on ... you are triggering the mind in wrong direction. It goes forward in that direction searching for all "I don't have, I don't like, I cannot" for the rest of the day. So, trigger it with positivity.

    - Today, the first thing in the morning that I read in my mobile was a quote in a group. It goes like this - "If one day we all are allowed to put our troubles on table and exchange, after a few minutes, everyone would silently take their own and leave." See, if this quote makes any sense to you.

    - Change your perspectives, the way you look at things. Everything makes sense if you look with right perspective. practice that.

    - Sometimes little things make us happy. An ice cream , a chocolate cookie, a simple walk, a joke, a phone call, a pat, a hug, anything .. whatever ... make a long list of what makes you happy. Sometimes, that list itself is enough to make your day. Make a list, make it happen and keep it happening.

    - Healthy body is healthy mind. Personally, exercise, healthy diet helped me to handle depression.

    - Do not take everyone's burdens upon yourself. It wears you out. One thing at a time and your inner peace comes first. That peace gives you strength to handle the rest.

    - Count your blessings. This is more important but I have deliberately written it last because I want this to be the first thing you will remember. There are many who don't have the life we have. We get depressed when we keep seeing the glass half empty. Learn seeing the glass half full.
     
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  4. Hopikrishnan

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    "COUNT"..... that is the crux of numerology. I am pleased that you feel the same.

    If a person like OP feels she has blessings to count, she can count them. She can also count the number of miseries that had befallen her family and relations.

    I still believe that breaking the tooth is very significant for the sleeping sister. I am looking forward to the information on the exact number of the tooth. If it is going to be 11, on the top row, the toothless gap would end up on the right side of the girl's smile. Totally devastating to any woman who needs to smile to project her confidence and personality. Protecting (or fixing it right pronto at a good dentist who can color match) the No. 11 is the most crucial: see what Numerology Life Path 11 - Master Intuitive | World Numerology says:

    With an 11 Life Path, you galvanize every situation you enter. You inspire people, but without your conscious effort. Energy seems to flow through you without your controlling it. This gives you both power and sometimes emotional turmoil.

    You are a channel for information between the higher and the lower, between the realm of the archetype and the relative world. Ideas, thoughts, understanding, and insight - all of these can come to you without your having to go through a rational thought process. There seems to be a bridge, or connection, between your conscious and unconscious realms, attuning you to a high level of intuition through which even psychic information can flow.

    All of this amounts to a great capacity for invention. Many inventors, artists, religious leaders, prophets, and leading figures in history have had the 11 prominent in their chart.​
     
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  5. EagerForInfo

    EagerForInfo Silver IL'ite

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    Thank you hopiKrishnan for your reply. I am attaching a picture to avoid any mistakes in counting in my part.
     

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    ok..from what you say..your sister might be into depression.Please do not brush it off and it is time she consults a doctor.Sleeping all the time is not right at all..

    when you say mentally ill, "just" depressed..it is not correct.It is of serious concern.The marriage is not so important that her mental health.

    This is also not just "another" issue! This is the main issue!

    I understand you guys are worried about your dad but the bigger problem here is your sister and I feel bad for the poor gal.Kindy address her needs and she needs to see a doc asap.

    Hope she feels better very soon.
     
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    That appears to be a #7.
    The number 7 symbolizes humanity's deep inner-need to find depth, meaning and spiritual connection. When the needs of food, self-expression, material and domestic achievements have been met, the 7 energy turns to the deeper levels of life - to learn, to educate ourselves and to find purpose. [source]​
    Looks to me like she is yearning for a higher purpose -- already has education, and beauty.
    She needs dental work to fix that gap; once it is done she would get her confidence back and go forward.
     
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    KayKuyil Silver IL'ite

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    I don’t know OP. Seems like you have a mixed up view on what’s common and what’s not. lots and lots of parents are highly educated and beauty/education is not everything. (Sorry but it’s irksome to see that you felt the need to mention that the women in the house are beautiful as if it’s some qualifying event)Your sister seems to be battling depression. Please get her help.
     
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