I just wished the need to post this never came. We have been married for 2 yrs now. My hubby is a workaholic and loves his job more than anything in this world. He works for an IT firm and works like crazy. He sometimes stays back at his work place or comes home at 2 or 3 at night also. I was working for an IT firm and completely understand how bad a support project can get. At the end of the day all that matters is how happy a person is doing a specific work. He has been working for this project for the last 2 years and all this time, I have been facing hell in the name of married life. I would not have minded him working so hard if only he showed atleast half the interest in family life and in making me happy. I had given up my high paying job and a very comfortable life style back home only because I wanted to live with this man and I feel so depressed now. I dont know if my harmones are working overtime or itz a problem with his...he just doesnt show any interest in sex life. I dont ask for it everyday but isnt it normal to atleast expect it once in 2 weeks? We are trying for pregnancy for the last few months and sex life is just about a baby making process. He asks me to check for my ovulation time and once the OPK's show positive, we do it and then nothing until ovulation period the next month. I try to initiate it from my end and he just turns me off...he talks to me as though I am a sex monster and says 'Dont disturb me...I wont be free for this whole week'...I really feel very embarased and dejected...It feels so cheap to be asking this and turned down over and again...I have started thinking of divorce also...I cant discuss this with my parents or frenz and being anonymous makes it easier sharing it here. Plz help me...Im totally broken down...should I leave him...I dont even know how to bring this as a topic for divorce also...Other than this he kindaf treats me well in terms of buying what I ask for or taking me out etc.