Family System Extinct Family system - Is it Collapsing all over the world? In the western world it is seen so yielding to the growing family system among muslims. The Hindu family tradition has started to decline. Islam's strong family system is capable of keeping it alive David Selbourne - a famous writer of the western world discuss this topic in his latest book "The losing battle with Islam". In this book, he has written that the western world is losing to Islam. He has listed many reasons for the defeat. He has mentioned Islam's strong family system as one Of main reasons. The family system has been destroyed in the western world. People don't like to get married. The family system is breaking down due to the prevalence of evils like homosexuality, illegal relationships, live-in relationships. Day by day, the number of category of children population is increasing who do not know who fathered them. Many young men or and couple loath to keep aged parents at home. The aged ones are left to fend themselves in old age homes. Social changes in the western society impelled the well established traditional family system on verge of destruction. Political parties have started promising to save the family system in their election manifesto. I read that in Australia, a political party named 'Family First' has been formed. Saving the family system is the biggest issue of the western world, because if the family system as envisaged by previous generation is not saved, then the society will also collapse sooner or later. This is the reason why writers like David Selbourne and Bill Warner are forced to say that due to the strong family system of Islam, the west will lose to Islam sooner or later. In India too, the Hindu family tradition has started to decline. The five blood relations are on the verge of ending. Relations like uncle, chacha, aunt, maternal uncle, maternal aunt are not going to be seen or heard in the coming times! Grandchildren or Great Grandchildren are standing alone in this world. If they need blood from their relatives then they will have none of their own in this whole universe. This status of present works not only force our children to live a lonely life but will also destroy our Hindu family civilization. We talk about Hindu unity, but this civilization itself marching toward its decimation : and our current generation will be responsible for all this.
Is it the current gen or the prev one like who are in their50s. They actually started, like when the a girl got married into a house, she didnt feel belonged, wanted to have her own space, freedom. Many of them had got good education and well employed. That is when everything started to disintegrate. It might have been simmering seeing their own mothers...I guess. I have seen so much of MIL, inlaws bashing here in IL by members who could not tolerate anyone from the husbands side. May be there were exceptions. Now I wonder if those elders (MILs, inlaws ) should be blamed or their MILs and inlaws!