Hi, this might be a long post so i apologize in advance. We have young couple here in US that lives next city and back in india their parents are my parents neighbours and also knew from long back. After they(family in india) found out ( from my parents) we live in same state, couple was quick to make friends with us. There are not many people from my place in this city and that too so close neighbors in town was coincidence. They would invite us a lot and cook/feed us a lot and attend most of events we do and help out in cooking/ cleaning everything and wife and i liked each other a lot. Boy used to treat me as a sister ( from same town) and literally do things as a brother. His wife really cared for my older one. Now my H seriously has personality issues and get hyper a lot and that too under high pressure, parties where people come. When you calling people to come and help out, they going to come and help out and some things they do their own way. Actually my H also liked his wife a lot, actually she us very good. Boy is really oversmart (but thats okay as long as they are good to you , not harming you). So we visit India a lot and every time we port lot of expensive + precious metals stuff from both sides for them, inspite of pointing out in the beginning to not to give jewellary (diamonds/gold). So one bday party, my H really shouted at them. I asked them to arrange tables etc and I asked to do in certain way my H did not want. My H started shouting why did that, i have been to 100 parties, i know how to arrange stuff, then guy had thrown some unnecessary bags to trash, my H was looking for them after party to put in stuff and again was not happy. 99% my H fault, i know my H. He will not shout at his older brother or some other friends because he knows they will shout back. He did at them, because he treated them as kids and relatives. I anyways bear the brunt of my H, thats another story. Also, My mother was here because we had 2nd baby. They had invited us 1-2 times but it was getting cancelling and one time i did not remember at all that we had vacation booked. Come on, i just had baby and had gone back to work.. life was still not stable,,...then me and H was already having issues. Suddenly after 1 month, i tried to contact them, and mother was going back, so asking if want to send stuff, etc, they did not response for even 100 calls. I tried whtspp/internet/ facebook everything and we were thinking to go and visit them if everything is okay, suddenly realized they have blocked us. My mother was here . We retrospected and realized why. We could not sleep for week and literally wanted to go and clear. My H does not care. After that, things got harder for me, mother left, kids were sick all the time... and i was struggling in my own life. Now, again my wounds are raw. His mother is coming to US. My mother in india went to meet them since she was keeping sick. So found out she is coming to US and told i won't be able to go and meet your daughter because of short term visit ( blah blah ..). I know the boy and he must have told everything to his mom. I was in talking with his mom also. I used to visit them, anyways exchanging stuff. Now I feel bad why this guy blocked us, he could have stopped taking calls, cut down, told us we are busy blah blah, instead of block which means terminating the relations. It clear insult probably in response to my H's way thay thought of insult. My H actually used to like them and this last party.i did not want to invite them for a bday party (because its kids party, it was in meseum, they are young couple, it feel inappropriate/ boring for them), my H said, we can not have party without them, as they come in all. Last year was very busy for me ( before this incident happended ) and relationship had slowed down. I had trouble with H and i had my parents here then new job struggle and then pregnant so i was not able to keep upto it. Inspite of them calling once twice. They felt we have some grievance but it was that i was already in stress. I told them many times, its nothing, just that i was busy. Please hear me out and what are your thoughts. Should i go and try to sort out? My H will not go. it will be just me. Then his mom will be here soon. ITs awkward situation i am in. Not visiting her is also an insult and going to their home when she is there and then dealing with this.