Hello people , Help me decoding this behaviour from close family friend woman of my mother's age. Some of you might know that I am single mom and I decided to give birth to baby when I was sure about breaking the marriage to person who lied about many things before marriage. Now when I was pregnant I cameback aloneand delivered child here (foreign country) This family friend helped me like she came to hospital for delivery, I stayed at their place for 10 days after coming from hospital. So I consider and respect her because she helped me in most toughest time. That time her son bought house and she moved to house and they sublet their apartment to me as they didnt want to give up on this apartment, it is 3 bedroom apartment at less rent (rent is less as tey had long lease from years) So basically I got 3 bedroom apartment at rent of 1 bedroom which was good deal for me too. I am staying in master bedroom and I rented other room to female, So I have company and support at home from roommate. Now I was renting 3rd room too (I don't need it) I have my big bedroom. But this aunty wanted to come and stay here for 2 nights, I rushed to get that room vacant since this aunty doesn't want I should rent both the rooms so she can come and stay here whenever she wants! Which is stupid but I didn't want to hurt her so now I keep 3rd room empty because last time she saw girl staying in 3rd room she got offended. Now here are the issue. She thinks it is still her apartment and I'm not entitled to rent any room ( she wants to come and stay whenever) Now she came here to stay a month ago and I'm still furious after she left. 1) she claimed she wants to stay to guide me about my daughter (she is 15 months now, not new born, I raised her alone till now) but still she said I'm coming to see how you are raising baby. I said sure.. She came and started pointing things you have food sticked on your floor. Your bedroom curtains is old now, you need to change this table cloth now, like bloody Mil.. Then she goes on to my cooking,I cooked special food for her, she said your food is not well-cooked. You were good when you were new in this country now you have become westernized. I responded her finally after listening to nagging for 2 days... I will hire maid now for cooking once I start working again.. Cooking is waste of time (I'm descent cook, everyone says that in my circle except her) She was making face that I will hire maid for cooking.. Now thing is.. She went to my neighbour (our common friends) and did bitching about how I keep house (which is her house according to her).. She was behaving like owner of this house and I am her secretary.. I still overlooked all this... 2) now this is the biggest issue.. She continues to tell me that I will be alone now with my daughter for rest of my life because that's what she believes (she said it exactly)... I believe you will be with your daughter for life now and you don't need to think about marriage because you have baby girl. She said once is fine.. But she keep repeating it and she told me at least 4 times.. I understand the concern but she is like telling me what to do with my life.. She has 3 kids of her own (40 years old divorce daughter with no kid who is not planning to remarry, 38 years old single son who is not ready to marry, and 27 years old youngest daughter who is also denying to get married)... She keep saying to me when she plays with my daughter that she will not get to see her grandkids since none of kids will marry. So I believe she is imposing same decision on me. And she thinks she can impose because she did big favor to me by helping me in delivey. 3) she insisted me like crazy this time when she came to send my daughter in daycare which she found, She called me 3 times to ask if I ask them for appointment and when I'm putting my daughter in the daycare which she showed and it is close to her house since my daughter is not learning much at home with me only.. I enquired at daycare but finally decided not to put her this year because of this virus... But what makes me angry is like she is after me like crazy.. I feel she is pushing me so I will start working again and she can get apartment back (God knows she is planning to give it other friends now who is pregnant and living in small space).. I am just not sure about this woman.. She is trying to rule her decisions on me and bitching about me is different story. I respected her till now, but I'm now losing respect for her. She says negative things about everyone, it's not just me or neighbour or relatives or her husband and list goes on.. I had headache for week after she left.. I have to entertain her out of obligation. What do you think about her behaviour? She is just one frustrated old lady or she wants to boss around since she is seeing me as soft target here.