Read few threads and it induced me to write this here. We are all DWs and all are expecting our DHs to be the best in everything. He should look good, smart, courteous, well groomed, soft spoken, well mannered, great earning etc, etc. I wonder, in turn are we giving our best to them? It is a general topic which was running on my mind while reading those threads, so just posted to know about your views. My views are: A Biggggg "NO". We are not upto their expectations. We also fail in doing few things. We also ignore few things, we also react greatly for simple things, which evoke a great anger in them. We girls are educated and learnt how to protect our self esteem, but we end up talking FEMINISM. We take advantage of weaker gender too. We are not Gods, we are humans and are expected to make errors. We both have their pros and cons. I hope all the marriage will go smooth once we understand and accepts each others pros and cons.