Expectations of a girl from marriage

A girl, when she is born, she is considered a doll. She is lucky to be pampered and called “Mahalakshmi” of the house. As she grows, she has been told the “Dos and DON’Ts” in her life. Even at her tender age, she has to live within her so called limits……..
Then the D-Day arrives, looking for a bridegroom for the girl, who was once a little doll. The girl is now in her dreams, thinking of her future and with a mixed feelings of getting into a totally new relation which is not aware of at all!!!
She thinks of her love, and starts living in a dreamland which is full of greenery, happiness, romance, you name it and it is there. She not only dreams but also nurtures her thoughts like a mother and starts living in them.
She imagines her so-called Prince to take her of her, be gentle, held her tender arms, lend a shoulder for her to lean on and a person who can understand anything she utters.
Everyday will be a dream for her. She dreams that her in-laws should be like her parents, who will take care of her like her parents did,
She dreams as to how she will be welcomed as a Princess to her new Home, the duties that she has to fulfill as a wife, daughter in law, etc. She will be on the top of the sky thinking that she is now a grown up woman and part of decision making in her family, going out with her Prince like movies, parks, temples, relatives’ house, hand in hand and secret glances once in a while and making signs through the eyes, etc., then her cousins teasing her…………………. What a moment it would be.
But how many girls live their dreams, especially after marriage?? Very difficult to answer, isn’t it?
Give it a thought, are all our daughters happy over there? Somewhere they have to make and are making compromises, sacrifices to live their life irrespective of whether they are working or not, true, isn’t?
Think…………. Think…………… Think